It has been weeks since I’ve broken up with the person I’m convinced to be ‘the one’. I was so miserable due to him being the first and only guy I’ve ever actually loved in my whole life. I had ex’s and didn’t feel anything with them like I did with this guy. In fact, he brought me closer to God.
I was born and raised a catholic, but I chose to be an atheist. For the last 16 years, I’ve always been stubborn and difficult. Nothing or nobody could influence or change my mind once it’s set.
I’ve never thought this guy could either, until a few weeks into the relationship I found myself looking into applying to OCAD, totally opposite from my lifelong dream of returning to Vancouver due to him wanting me to be close to him. I’ve also started trying to believe in God. I had some experiences with what my mom would consider miracles but I’ve yet to believe. It’s not easy for me to suddenly turn back to God after those years.
If God has created a guy for me, it’s him. I prayed and prayed. I asked God why he would take a guy that actually made me turn back to him away. Could this possibly be his plan? Is there a reason behind this at all? I still have hopes that one day. Maybe… Just maybe…
I believe God just wants you to give your life to him fully, if you can’t be faithful and truely love him how do you kow how to Love man. Is it not God who created Love, Let God mold you into the women he has called you to be stay deep in the word (read your bible daily) and see how your life changes. He may be the one or he may have taken him away because God has someone better for you, but you have to Love God he has to be your first love have faith he knows whats best for You.
This hit home for me thank you for this comment. May God bless you
I’m going through the same. My ex and I break up 4 days ago, he goes to church is devoted to God. I admire him cause everyday he strives to be someone better. We know each other for about 8 years ago but started dating 6 months ago we been having many ups and downs but now he just can’t take it any more and decided to put and end to it. This is what he told me
What should I do? I love him and miss him so much.
Emz, I am not an expert here but I think there was something missing in your relationship with your man. He said he chose God over you, and that is absolutely great, he probably saw you as a problem. Christians believe that first is God and if you love a person more than God then you sin. I had a similar situation, my ex, very devoted christian, was telling me the same things once I started to give him problems. When I was breaking up, my ex would tell me exactly the same. However, I know now that the reason he was protecting himself with the Bible was because he wanted something from me and I didnt want to go along. Basically, he wanted me to pay his bills and help him with a green card. Once that didnt work, he turned away from me so I saw his true intentions. One more time my belief is this. If you love someone, you would be with that person no matter what and God will just help you to get closer and solve problems. Here in your case and mine, looks like “God” separated us from our men. Why? because they didnt feel the same as we do. So unfortunately you will suffer as I do, but getting back is not gonna happen, Maybe for our own good..God bless..keep praying
Someone who is truthful and honest. What a privilege to read what you wrote.
I was raised going to church until my dad died of cancer when I was 11. After that my life has been nothing but heartbreak and chaos. I’m 30 now and about a year ago I met someone who helped reintroduce me to Christ. He has one of the strongest testimonies I have ever heard but yet just landed himself in jail facing decades behind bars. I just don’t understand how God finally started to get through to me and then removed him from me when im still so unsure and doubtful lacking a true testimony of my own. I want to feel that conviction more than anything in the world but I feel like I’m 11 years old again and my dad just died and im lost in the wind. I know I need to learn how to put God first but I don’t know how to make myself feel something I dont feel.
I continue to sin and struggle with addiction and depression and have this aching hole in my heart. Something inside of me knows God is the answer but something inside of me is also rejecting it or something. I’ve been reading the bible studying and investing serious time into God and I just don’t feel like I’ve got any response from him. All I need is just a little peace of mind that I’m doing something right. I’ve run away and avoided things my entire life and I’m scared to death if I don’t feel something soon I’ll stop searching and give up on God. I know a couple months of trying to reconnect with God doesn’t make up for the last 20 years of complete chaos selfishness and sin but I need His help. I feel like I’m drowning
Hi I don’t know if u are still seeking answers but I feel like God knows our hearts more then we do. He knows our true heart. And God is forgiving. Jesus said I am the way the truth and the light no one gets to the father except through me. People think that when the bible says if u repent and accept Christ u will go to heaven which are the very absolute truth and because this is true a child molester can and many will go to heaven and many people we see as amazing people will go to help and the reason for this is because God knows your heart. He knows if that child molester is really truly absolutely without question seeking forgiveness and believes in Christ without a doubt. He also knows when we are just saying what we think he wants to hear because we think god is dumb and we can fool him into giving us what we want by saying what he wants to hear but it isnt that way u cant just say with your mouth but u also must believe in your heart so maybe its that u don’t even believe the things u say. Maybe u are just trying to get something. We were put here for Gods pleasure he isn’t here for ours. We go to church to give praise and thanks not receive a message and get filled up we are here to give to god to be a tool or foot stool or toilet paper even. Whatever he asks of us to give him and he gives to us when and simply because he feels like it because it brings him joy to see us happy. Maybe you should pray that God would putwithin u a new spirit. Give u a new heart. Ask him to remove your heart of stone and give u a heart of flesh. Ask him to fill u with a true desire to know him
I was raised Catholic, I loved a man so much and devoted myself to him and he didn’t love me back the same way. I was angry and felt alone and depressed. There where moments when I felt like no one understood me, my pain, and I thought it was unbearable. But even in the bad times God is working in us, testing us, making us stronger. I know its hard to read words and find comfort in them, but I pray you find comfort in these, I feel I can relate to you. When you feel lost and alone, talk to God, he’s listening. When the hard times come, be strong in your faith. Even if you feel crazy for talking out loud to him, do it. When you alone, cry to him about your pain, how you need him (GOD), love him (GOD). This is the most important relationship you will ever have, your walk with God. Trust in him and his plan for you. I held on to a man that I knew didn’t feel the same for me for 3 years but I felt he was “the one”, he broke my heart. But I talked to God at night when I was alone, I’d cry in the dark and talk to him. As much as I hurt, I prayed for strength and patience and guidance. And when times got harder, God sent me a friend and he stood by me, cried with me, loved me and I know he is the reason it did not work out with the person I THOUGHT was “the one”. God brings people into our lives and takes them away. But we must appreciate all the blessings, people, pain, trials and tribulations that make us stronger. Trust in his love for you. God loves you, and he thinks your just perfect. There is always a reason things happen, god gives each and everyone of us PURPOSE. TRUST in HIM. I started going to church, I stopped cursing, I learned to love myself before I can love a man. And God led me to this REVELATION. talk to him, he’s guiding you, revealing things to you as you grow closer to him. You’ll be all right. I still feel weird when people say
because I wasn’t raised around people that said that. But today when I talk to god, I’ll talk to him and send a prayer your way Evelyn. Because your not alone, and I don’t know you, but i love you. because that is what God teaches us, to LOVE. God is LOVE- so read your bible and grow closer to him. Just watch as your life changes when you accept Jesus Christ into your life.
Grace143, I am also going through a similar situation I would love to email you or you email me and tell he about your progress I’m still struggling.
Similar situation and a struggle.
May God Give You Strength through this difficult time. Keep trusting
Feel free to email me
I’m experiencing this right now. I don’t feel I am deserving of him. I feel he ddnt love me as much. I can’t ask him back because I’m not sure if he really does love me. He was my answered prayer but why did God sent him if he wasn’t mine to keep? Was it that I have to help him back up? Now he does got back up and now I’m the one broken. ?
I’m experiencing same like you, I was happy before my relationship, it was God who send my ex boyfriend to me. So from the starting of my relationship I prayed to God to strengthen our relationship. It was ok until when one of his friends started saying negative about me that I will leave my ex boyfriend one day. By hearing this I was broken heart, but I keep myself silent. From there on my ex boyfriend started to doubt me, but never ever cheated him, never kept any secret from him. All these 6 years. I knew him well but he didn’t know me. Then even he told my father that we both wanted to marry, my father agreed. But now he does want to marry me as his mother emotionally blackmailing him to marry his same caste, as we both are different caste. My father is on my side and helping me. I still love him so much, but he broke my heart to the point that I was thinking of suicide. But I hold on myself and thought for a while God is telling me to wait as he has promised me it will be restored. So I’m praying in hope that God will bring him back. But sometimes I ask to myself that if he was not the one for me then why God has send him to me? Then also I still continue to pray. Please pray to God, he will fulfill your needs in his time.
I am also going through the same things expected i broke my boyfriend heartbroken by the things i saw to people about him. I did not know better and i regret and which i could take it back.
Right now i am letting God Fight my Battle. Only GOD knows what is in store for me
I am also going through the same things expected i broke my boyfriend heartbroken. I made him feel less than a man by the things i said to people about him. I did not know better and i regret and wish i could take it back.
Right now i am letting God Fight my Battle. Only GOD knows what is in store for me. I pray and have faith that God will send him back to me
I’m like this at the moment to dearly love the Christian man have been with last 3 years god as put me back with my ex that is a unbeliever total gutted
I didn’t quite understand what you wrote, but did you say God put you back together with your unbelieving ex but that your in love with a Christian man you have been with the last 3 years? First God did not put you together with any unbeliever. That goes against the written words in the bible to not be unequally tied with an unbeliever. God does not change his mind or go against his own word, or make exceptions to disobey it. If that is what you said has happened, then you followed your own thoughts or desires. What does total gutted refer to? It would be easier to leave a proper and helpful response if you could clearly write out your thoughts.
Seek ye first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you.
Hi Evelyn,
As i was reading your post, i felt i needed to send a reply to your post. I just wanted to let you know that God has mysterious ways how he plans things for us. One day i believe you would just tell yourself, “God you surprised me” because we tend to have expectations how we want the outcome to be. Whatever you are going thru, God knows your name and he knows your thoughts. He wants me to tell you to be still, and know his god and trust in him always. He has reasons we will never understand because we cannot see the whole picture yet, just hold on sister, and fight the good fight, coz help is on the way. The bible says mountains may move, hills may be removed, but God’s steadfast love will never depart us. And he also said “On the day of trouble, i will conceal you in my shelter and hide you under my tent and he will raise your feet on top of a rock where you wont be moved nor shaken! For it is when you are under God’s presence where the enemy wont be able to bring you down any further but instead God will raise you up. Hes the only source of strength and hope sister. Call on our father. I believe help is on the way….. God Bless you…
Your beautiful words really just helped me. Although you are talking to me I felt them in my spirit since I am going through the same thing. Thank you.. bless you..
I so miss my boyfriend. He brought everything positive into my life and he was a pastor. He was also a bit different in age but that didn’t matter. He said he left because my word isn’t solid and he wanted me to be home more. I miss him so much in now he’s with another women, and he don’t even answer my kids calls anymore. What does that mean?
I have been waiting for a sign and crying to God PLZ send me a sign. I’m in struggles every way possible and nothing is easy. I googled God PLZ send me a sign and this is what I got. I don’t trust easy everyone who said I won’t leave you left. I don’t know how to let God work, hear his will, pay and wait. I don’t know how to give it to God. I feel this message is somehow given to me. I’ll accept it the best I can in these times. Thank you and God bless
Hello Cassie! I am struggling with my own problems as well. But I felt impressed to respond to you! I myself have doubts and fears just like any human would in a time like this. I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago and some days I feel like I’m back at square one. BUT, I do the only thing I know to do. GIVE IT TO GOD. I give Him everything. Sometimes when I’m just sitting in my living room with my family I have to get up and leave to go to my room and weep because I’m swamped with worry, fear and constant memories that are in my mind of my ex. I listen to the song “let go” by dewayne woods and the lyrics in that song are nothingn but anointed. God is calling each and everyone of us to a higher calling and purpose! Keep your faith and LEAN on Jesus for your strength. Every morning, every night, give Him your issues and leave it at His feet. Greater plans are on the way!
In Jesus Name, I pray that you will bring Cassie your peace and strength. I pray God that You will clothe her in your love. Remind her in this moments when she feels alone that you are right at her side hurting with her. In Jesus Name I pray against those fleshly thoughts and desires, and that you would help her to think with Your Spirit. God guide us and lead us where you want us to go. In Jesus Name I pray, AMEN!
Love you girl, I hope and pray that you listen to God in your time of need. I am doing the same thing and let me assure you it is NOT EASY. BUT, the reward is greater. It says in God’s word that everything is worked for our good. Keep your faith in God strong!!
I hear you all. But my boo was honest just enacted to be friends. I got caught. I’m mad because God should not have let him in my life. What was the point – heartache I have enough.
Dear precious daughter of Christ,
A miracle is on the door, tonight i got online and i prayed to Jesus for a minute asking him to tell me what i should do online tonight and God led me to your testimony which is related to mine, thats not a coincidence, thats God already at work in your life hence he directed me to ur testimony.
Dear sis,
When i was an atheist i still one day prayed to God at the age of 17 for a soulmate out of my loneliness, he heard the grief of my soul, thank God for that and within a month or so he brought the man of my dreams, he was beyond my expectations, we cherished our time together, we were so strong together, it continued for 5 yrs and throughout this time i was still a spoilt child, no reverence for God, Jesus Christ.
But God never neglected me, he overlooked my arrogance and continued his work in my life that one day i would believe on him….well God always has the final say….he separated us two, we never broke up, he just moved to australia to look after his family, thats when i felt very sad and depressed and so angry at God why he took him away when he brought this man into my life, i had bfs before him but he was the man of my life, he was sent by God as an answer to my prayer, but i was so angry at God, i said….why u sent me snake when i asked for bread…
Now here’s this….it is the brokenness of the spirit, the grief of our soul that brings us closer to Christ and he makes everything perfect concerning us, he said….my daughter, your my child, i give you beyond your expectations when you just ask me but during this time when u were rejoicing in your soulmate, my temples (meaning this man and me) were still lying in ruins, unsaved, so enslaved to this world, unprotected from the burning hell and demons, ungodly, I saw your future and your future lies in ruins, i will not let you die, there is no condemnation in me, i will give you life and you both shall seek the Lord, so i scattered you two so you will seek me with all your heart.
Tho i scattered you for a short time, my spirit will guard you, protect you and make you holy in my eyes, then when i have cleansed and sanctified you with my blood, when i have made your stubborn heart of stone into a heart of flesh and Lord fearing children then i will rebuilt the ruins, be not afraid my child, let your hands be strong, wait in hope, i will rebuilt the ruins the glory of the future house will be greater than the glory of the present house.
Lord has given me faith and also gave me a responsibility to pray for my man’s salvation, just know dear….there is no sacrifice of love in Christ, Christ is Love and you have pure love and not lust for your man then be assured God himself will make sure that this marriage takes place.
Pray for both your salvation and holy spirit baptism, when God began to talk to me in my heart and thru his word of God, i was transformed into a different person without my knowledge and effort, im still amazed at Jesus how he really changed my stoned heart into a heart of flesh when i went to total surrenderence in God believing he wants my heart not my sacrifice for love, there is no sacrifice or sadness in him he is hope and so we are the prisons of hope, have faith in Christ for he works and gives according to your faith. God wants a hopeful and a faithful heart not a doubtful sad or sacrificing heart.
I know your heart feels betrayed, lonely, questioning, anger towards God and man, I have gone thru this, give your wounded soul and heart to Jesus, submit it to him completely, he will heal that wound and give you the deepest desires of your heart, let Christ come in, let him be glorified through your faith, let him do an amazing miracle in your life and bring your man right at your door step all changed and GOD fearing man so that you two holy temples of Christ will serve together to the Lord and bring millions of lost souls to him.
Thank him for this temporary separation, when things go out of our control, thats where God comes in and acts according to your faith.
The day when u posted this testimony, 9th feb 2012, this is the date of birth of my beloved man, thats an amazing miracle to me.
Remain in faith, be assured, nobody can know your tears, your pain your sorrow better than Lord himself.
asianJesusLover
I am going through the same thing now and my love brought me closer to God in the weirdest way but then we split up. I have been reading online if God can give us the man we pray for specific and after reading your words I feel so encouraged and full of hope. Even years later it touched me.
Thank you
E
I am amazed to see the exact inspiration I needed to see
This post blessed me on today
EricaB, I am going through the same thing and at times I feel like giving up, sometimes I feel so alone.
I must say that I too am in the very same boat as everyone else posted here. My ex boyfriend of 8 years whom I totally loved and we shared in the best relationships on the planet so I thought. We dated heavily for 6 years and were engaged to be married for two additional years until one eveing 3 years ago mid September of 2012 just one month after my sister passed away from a brief illness to colon cancer leaving me in absolute distort. I went to visit him one evening about 9 pm at his home being I couldn’t sleep and felt just needed to be with the love of my life. Only to arrive at his home to surprise him and spend some quality time together and find him entering another woman whom is two years my senior saying she’s just a new friend. I guess there’s no need to mention the we broke up and he started dating the other woman full-time for about 2 years.
After their breakup he and I reconciled after for and started dating again for about another year but I just found out tonight by accident that he’s still sleeping with the other female and I’m so lost, hurt, disappointed, disgusted and alone yet again. When I discovered his car at her house tonight. I just started screaming and hollering. I am at an all time loss.
I sat in my driveway for over an hour crying, hooping & hollering like a child. I am in so much pain. I even thought about doing something crazy like throwing a brick through his windshield or worst but instead I just started praying and calling out to God. We’re both Save and in Christ. We did everything together. If you see one of us you saw the other. We even went for weekend drives and walks holding hands like teenagers. We prayed and worshipped together. I love him so much and I really want to marry him. He’s my soulmate. I get excited just thinking about him.
Please help me because I’m drowning. My life feels useless without him!!!
Jesusgrl1, I went and still going through a similar problem after 20 years I never thought I will be separated from my ex. The relationship was very rocky especially at the end. I love him with all my heart and I still do but I realized I was in love with a man I met 20 yrs ago. He cheated on me constantly and lied and with all that I will still take him back but not today he has to come to me straight and apologize and he has to have God in this life first this time. He lied to me to the point he went in front of a judge and made me look bad when he was the one that was wrong but now I give it to God and each day is getting a little bit better but I know exactly how you feel its like wow this was the man I was supposed to be with and in my face he would be with other women it doesn’t get any more painful than that stay strong keep your head up we deserve respect
I’ve been looking for answer to my situation which is similar. I was raised in a Christian household, I’ve always believed in God.
I’ve been dating this guy off & on for several years & I believed god is the reason we kept coming back to each other.
I never wanted to get married or live with a man. I’m 36 & have never done either. I of course hadn’t always been faithful in my relationship but when I started thinking about my future & who I wanted to spend the rest of my life with it was him. I began to change my ways & pray daily maybe smtms 3 times a day just asking that me & my boyfriend behind closer, asking god to show me signs if he’s who he wanted to be my husband.
My bf started talking about marriage, calling me his last name, talking abt moving together AND THEN IT ALL CHANGED. HE DECIDED HE DIDN’T WANT TO BE WITH ME ANYMORE. I’ve bn sooo depressed trying to understand why God send me the signs & then took him away? Is this a test of faith, is this just a season?
Please help me understand what’s going on as well as pray that God answers my prayer & sends him back to be as a man of faith.
Gemina1116
I am going through the same thing.
The man I love doesn’t know I love him. Nor do I know if he loves me. I do know all I feel is peace and a calmness in my heart when we are together. I see love in his eyes as well.
I pray 3-4 times a day that if this man is for me send me a sign. Also , if he is not for me to take him away so my heart can heal. He still keeps coming back. I’m confused and still love him. He is a good man and has all the qualities I want in s man. I keep on thinking maybe we are not ready to commit to one another yet. We still have a few things to learn. God is preparing us for that special love.
We can only ask and pray to God that he help with whatever he is trying to tell us. Ask if he can help you hear what it is he wants you to do.
I will have you in my prayers for I know it’s difficult for the one you love to come in and out of your life.
It will be ok. Open your heart and give it all to God. He is first before any other man.
Did he ever come back?
This post has given me hope u have no idea how this has made me feel like I’m not alone n what I always knew is known by someone else like if I love him n not lust him, I honestly never based my feelings on lust and that God will bring him back changed I have so much faith thus will happen one day n I will keep waiting patiently because Christ is working on him n it’s taking a while he is Muslim n I’m Christian I always thought he was the one because one day I prayed for someone to love n love me that very same day I met him n became inseparable unfortunately jealousy got the best of me n we lasted 4 wonder yrs we suffered n when up until we broke up but I always had faith that maybe one e day he will be Christian too n I still keep my faith. It’s been 1 yr since we haven’t talked n I can’t stop thinking that God has heard my prayers. And has seen my suffering and knows my HEART. Thank you for your godly words of hope. Idk u but I love u. Btw reading this us like another sign if what God has been trying to tell me. Omg thank u. God bless u eternally
Thank you so so much for sharing this! It brings me great joy that the lord brought me to this page. It’s a subject that I can’t just talk to anyone about but you all understand. I pray each and every one of your relationships be restored in Jesus name. I wanted to give up I had prayers that went unanswered. I was desperate for a revelation I almost looked for it in other places! But instead I cried to the Lord and here I am reading all this hope. Thank god for the separation that brings us sanctification. I got love for all you sisters stay strong. You have no idea how much I needed this at this very moment. Praise God.
Thank u for this message.. I was about to give up and this enlightened me by what God wants us to do.. Bless you and thank u
I have teary eye bec this really opened my heart and mind to my situation
Praise the Lord, what a miraculous God we serve, i just prayed over you and God gave me this….he also wants you to wait upon him and hope for a miracle, do not lose heart, rejoice make Jesus that first priority in your life, there is NO disappointment, NO sorrow, No grief in Jesus when you go in total surrenderence to him, amen
Habakkuk 3:16-19
New International Version (NIV)
16 I heard and my heart pounded,
my lips quivered at the sound;
decay crept into my bones,
and my legs trembled.
Yet I will wait patiently for the day of calamity
to come on the nation invading us.
17 Though the fig tree does not bud
and there are no grapes on the vines,
though the olive crop fails
and the fields produce no food,
though there are no sheep in the pen
and no cattle in the stalls,
18 yet I will rejoice in the LORD,
I will be joyful in God my Savior.
19 The Sovereign LORD is my strength;
he makes my feet like the feet of a deer,
he enables me to tread on the heights.
For the director of music. On my stringed instruments.
I don’t know if you will read this because it has been a few years since you posted. I was wondering what the outcome of your own situation has been and what is god doing in your life now? How did you discern God had said these things? I sometimes wonder which of what I hear is the Lord or nonsense. Sometimes people have said things to me and now I am not sure what things he really said through them and which things he didn’t. Thank you, I really delighted reading what you wrote to others.
Yesterday was his bday.. seems like not a day gone by without me having to think of him in some way…
Dear sister…do not lose faith…know that God has a purpose for you…others are being touched by the lord like you are…I am no different…God loves you and will take you through this…DO NOT STOP BELIEVING…HE LOVES YOU!!!:):):):)
Hi everyone,
I feel so blessed to have stumbled across this testimony.I have been searching for answers as to why our awesome father has put me in the situation im in today.A friend whom i love dearly is an atheist and i could never understand why we were not connecting spiritually until God in all his glory revealed it to me on saturday evening.Before this awesome revelation i just felt like running away like not being there with him and when it was revealed to me i was at peace,i realised why he was so stubborn and cold towards me,and that nothing i couldve done or said would change this.Im struggling to deal with the hurtful words and the dissapointment.I do believe that God is doing big things in my and my friend’s life and however hard it might seem today,i should continue to have faith,pray and believe.Its awesome to know that there are others that are exactly in the same position as me today.
In christ
OC
Thank you all for your words.
I am asking this same question. I have always been a Christian, but have just become more involved with my Faith. I am in a similar situation and believe that I was meant to find this page. Please pray for me.
May God bless us all and restore and renew our relationships. In Jesus name….
I also believe I was led to this page. Please pray for me too. My faith is weak and I have lost a lot over the past two years. I lost the man I believe God led me to and this man also believed I was ” the one” However, I struggled with anxiety and couldn’t proceed with things ( i really wanted to but just feared my faith wasn’t strong enough or that I was good enough for him) That translated into a lot of trouble for us and now he is with someone else. I still held on, kept praying and truly believed God was tellig me, it’s still going to be ok…you’ll come back together..just weait and let me work. But they’ve now taken communion together and that, I would say, looks like full commitment to each other. I am so sad and can’t explain how I feel. I have never felt like this about any man and still carry him with me, every day. I’m also so unsure and hurt re all my prayers and all this time being in vain. I’m just not the same person I used to be. I feel God has thrown me out of the picture and has blessed him but cast me aside. I also, in a moment of weakness, messaged him recently and regret it very much as he did not reply so I feel extra foolish. If I thought God had someone else, lined up for me, I would be very happy, but I’m not so sure
god loves us all
Hi everybody, I also believe God himself sent me to this page. I am going though the same thing. Me and my boyfriend broke up due to us not seeing eye to eye on a few things in our relationship. He is everything that I want in a man and he also has alot of potential.We have quite an age gap I’m 31 and he is 27. With him being so younger than me and us agreeing to start a relationship with one another I had the feelings of insecurity,I was scared,and confused. I feel like those feelings are reason that we broke up. I have to admit I have learned a lot from this and I am praying that he comes back to me I miss him so much and I am deeply in love with him. I feel as if I should have known better to let thoses feeling take over me because out of them I said some pretty hurtful things that pushed him away from me, the crazy thing is I am not like that at all I am a very loving person. and always try to see the good in everybody and everything. Prior to meeting him I was single for 5 years and in those 5 years I built a strong relationship with God. Thats why I don’t understand what came over me to make say and act the way I did towards my boyfriend. I can say that I have learned a lot from this and I do know I feel it in my spirit that he is my future husband. It is the waiting on him that is the hard part for me. I can say that God is telling me to wait on him and that our relationship with on another is going to be greater than it was before, and he’s telling me to prepare myself for when he comes back and that’s what I’m doing but some days are really hard and I have to make myself pray harder.I’m asking that you pray for me as I will pray for you also. Habakkuk : 2 says 1 I will stand upon my watch, and set me upon the tower, and will watch to see what he will say unto me, and what I shall answer when I am reproved.
2 And the LORD answered me, and said, Write the vision, and make it plain upon tables, that he may run that readeth it.
3 For the vision is yet for an appointed time, but at the end it shall speak, and not lie: though it tarry, wait for it; because it will surely come, it will not tarry. Heb. 10.37
4 Behold, his soul which is lifted up is not upright in him: but the just shall live by his faith. Rom. 1.17 · Gal. 3.11 · Heb. 10.38
For all of you keep the faith!!! Love Rayen
pls pray for my relationship to be restored by God
God he is with you, please send him back to me, anything is possible with you, only you can help me ,please god please forgive my sins send him back to me please
Hi guys!! I am happy to say that God has blessed me with a second chance at love yes he brought him back to me.With lots of prayer believing and receiving.I had lots of sleepless nights, but God was right there with me and guided me through he gives me peace he told me to let go and let him. he talked and still does talk to me.We have a great relationship.God brought me to a website called The Secret and after reading testimonies on that site I looked up the movie on youtube, there I got alot insight on Gods peace, how to get to a place of faith and trust in him and that he would work things out for my God as I stood on the the scripture Habakkuk 2:3 and still do. He really works try me and don’t lose faith what ever you do!!! Have a blessed one!
So glad to hear God brought back your lover – reading this I believe I have hope that God too can return my lover through faith x
Wow you really gave me hope thank you
I’m glad to find this page. I’m going through the exact same situation. My boyfriend and I broke up..I had been struggling maintain my relationship with God and at the same time being with my boyfriend. And I had been praying for him since sept 2012 to accept Jesus until today. The more I pray was the more our relationship fell apart. And now we decided to go apart. I really love this guy and his presence in my life has changed my life and he drew me closer to God without even realising it. I believe that God wants to sort out my relationship with Him (God) so that I’ll make a better wife one day and so that I will see His glory and will meet Him in the clouds one day….and I still believe in my relationship with this guy. I almost gave up on praying for him and our relationship and future together, but my friend (prayerpartner) encouraged me to not give up. For He says in his word that when we ask for bread He will not give us stone. And that we must seek first the kingdom of God and all its righteousness and all shall be added. As I go through this painful situation in my life I trust only in God, and I trust that He is sorting out my spiritual life and my boyfriend spiritual life, all for the glory of God.
I wanna tell all who really believe in their boyfriends/girlfriends to not give up on them. God will grant u exactly what u desire…and all He wants is for u to stay in Him and He shall stay in you. Trust in Him, be humble, be selfless, be holy, glorify Him only, get to know God…feed your soul with God’s word and His Holy Spirit. Read 1Peter 2: 11-25 and verse 3:1-13. I love that scripture, it keeps me going. Love yall and God bless 🙂
Thank you for the sharing. I’m in similar situation while I felt (or Holy Spirit’s reminder) that my relationship with my Hindu bf is not going to the right direction. We had a lot of sweet memories together and we ended in good terms. I still pray for his salvation, on the other hand so that we can be a better lifelong partner.. just needing peace from God that he will help to take my fear away and make my little faith a massive one
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I thank God that I have found this website. I pray that we all, by the Lord’s strength, be of good courage. Pray earnestly for your spouse, but focus on God and don’t have a time limit. Trust HIM!!! He is on our side, and His plan is the best there is. Put God first in your heart and mind. Love Him with your everything and you will see Him perform a miracle in your life. Don’t give up on God cause He won’t give up on you!!! I love you brothers and sisters ~xoxoxox
Hi Evelyn,
I randomly searched for ‘Would God give my ex back to me’ and I found this blog and this post. I’m just like you, being involved in a broken relationship with my boy. We broke up last September after his overseas Military exercise, with a reason ‘I don’t love you anymore’. When we broke up, I began to see a lot of things. How much God had given us both, how much effort my bf put in and how ignorant I was. I’m like you, stubborn in my own very way. Sinning and sinning, lying and lying for countless of times. I can’t forgive myself for all that I’ve done to hurt them. It’s been hundred over days, not a single day that my prayers left him out. I realized all the wrong I’ve done. I should have cherished, I should have done this, I should have done that, I shouldn’t have.. etc etc. Love can’t be explained nor expressed with just words. My friends told me that whatever he had done to me was so much worse than what I’ve done to him. But I know, I’ve too, hurt him a lot of times. I keep on asking for God’s forgiveness, because I felt that I’m hurt so much, I changed my life for a person I called my world and what he did was leaving me without hesitation. I thought it was punishment from God, till today, I learned that it was what my sins had caused me. If God can tolerate me and forgive me time over time, I can also do that to forgive him for what he has done. I managed to do that but I’m still feeling hurt. I know that these are problems that I’ve caused myself. I was told to let go, to give up on him, but I couldn’t. I always felt that, if God gave him to me, then take him away, why did He give him to me then take him away again? I believe that he’s still mine. I told myself that this separation is temporary. When God sees my change, my faith and my persistent, He would give him back to me. I hope that I’m not self-deceiving, but just keeping that little bit of hope to change for the better me that could love Him and him more. I’m here, still waiting for him. They called me stupid and silly, saying that he could have moved on with someone better. I don’t know, I just hope to have more faith to believe in what God has planned for me. Not sure if you’re still waiting for your ‘him’, if you still are, remember that I’m too, waiting for my ‘him’ with what He has planned for us. Don’t give up in what you believe in. If you had already moved on with someone that is better than him. May you last forever with him with the happiness God has blessed you. Amen.
To know I caused pain to some one hurts me to know that I did all those things I know I didn’t deserve him . Now I know the whole true meaning of it never thought a man can love me and care for me so much to give me his love and I give him my pain. I won’t ever forget him he is like a book mark in my life till the day I close my eyes . God has put a stop to my pain and I know I need to become the woman some one will one day desire . All though I know so much I feel like people talk to me for a reason . And my ex man even had ways of reaching me in his unexplained ways and he knows about me . It’s weird but I will do anything possible to have my amazing man back in my life . Our connection is so strong I can’t even explain it . I have dreams , I have some what you call visions , I sense etc ….
I will do anything for him back in my life anything . I love him and I can’t thank him enough he is my joy my happiness .
This my version of the story
Two years yeah not that long but I fell in love with my x 2 weeks into our relationship. I was dream gf. I was like his little wife. I never had a job when I was with him but I tried but got nothing but bites and no fish. But whatever i earned money I had I used on him. Even used a few hundreds of my pathetic savings on him. I did the best I could with what I had and if I had a job i would I have love to do more. I wqs going to college getting my prereqs done for nursing but he said that was a waste of time. Two years of rockyness. I don’t have enough finger to count how many time was a wast he broke up with me. I was always faithful to him. I didn’t even talk to any guys even my friends whom were all guys because he didn’t want me to. I didn’t even look at another guy and I why would I? He was all I needed. was faith and painfully honest and patient and forgiving. While he lied about almost everything talked to other girls trying to get with then and cheated on me. Almost a year I. in I moved with him and his parents after a fight I had with my dad and I was miserable there but me and him were great. I had to get over quick with him cheating on me but I still bothered me but i put it behind me. We moved into my sisters house it got a little stressful she had a bunch of kids and he woke up early but I did my best to mediate between them he proposed on our one year anniversary. Two moths later I was pregnant. And it started falling about then. I had complications, had my micro bio class him and my fam werent getting along and he was constantly complaining about me or my family. About every little things! He planned to married before i started showing and we had the venue and the dress and He broke up with me every four weeks just at the same time I had an lab exam and lecture exam. Well we stuck it out and everything all ready to till i heard about the shocking and terrible things his mother said about me and i ended up canceling our wedding five days before. When i was 9 months, him and my family were doing great.i had a very bad delivery and my baby ended up in hopstilal for a week after she was born. She had a spinal time and all things tests done to her and she had holes in her heart. I felt like dying. And I prayed and prayed and prayed and then all of a sudden she was better. I was so grateful to God to Savin my little innocent baby. and i was soooooooo extremely happy when me kevin and lena finally went home together as a family. I felt great despite my c cesion incision because I loved my little family. My own family. What I always wanted more than anything. Well. he broke up with me three weeks after our daughter was born over something pathetic. I felt he was looking for an excuse to leave me. Well he was going off saying he’s gonna get lawyers and everything and he’s gonna tell the judge this that and take Lena from me for half the time or more. We ended up going to court and still dealing with court till this day. Three moths after he left me he found a new gf. He co worker of his. Alot younger then him. She’s 21 and he’s gonna be 27. I’m 27 but he says she’s more mature than me cuz she has a job. Well he has broken up with her alot and always came running back to me. Me still loving him and wanting to be a family always took jk back only for him to leave me again and run back to her even though he talked so much crap about her and saying how awful she was talking to guys behind his back and going to see her x and texting her x saying I love you and flirting win her boss to a pay raise and how he can’t trust her. Well he changes it around when he’s with her. She helps him out by helping pay for things like a new wardrobe drives her car drives him everything pays for everything and buys him whatever he wants. He said they love each other and she wants to get married.
Well yeah sucks. God has given me every reason to not live with him even the that he puts his gf first before our daughter like canceling to see her on her first bday cuz he wanted to spend time other fay his gf. And just other times as well. I have seen him say and do the same thighs to her as he did to me. Made me feel stupid for feeling special. I have seen his new relationship be the same exact things as mine and sure the same as the his other x’s. his relationships are all repetitive. I have seen him and his gf hold and play with my baby. Just them three as if he had the baby with her while they leave me behind. Or put my baby between them and I had to sit or stand else where. It is difficult to see another girl with him and with my child. To see them cuddle and kiss and be touchy in front of me and saying I love you while she holds my baby made me ran another room to cry. I had to deal with that three times a week. Now he says he’s gonna do whatever to stay with her and hopefully marry her cuz he doesn’t want our daughter to see him with a bunch of new gfs. Bj this girl doesn’t respect me or Lena. And she constantly takes time and attention away from Lena because she wants all of Kevin’s time and attention. I mean ah wouldn’t let him get out of the car to say hi to his daughter. We waited five mins before he actually came out to say hi and take Lena even when I called for him to say hi to Lena. Yes reading this you can say wow what a jerk he was and yeah he was. I’m not perfect and I know I could be too much to handle especially when I was pregnant I was a miserable cranky grouchy witch and I said sorry with no strings attached. I admitted my wrongs to him and said maybe yeah I could have been more loving when I was pregnant but I’m no to blame for our relationship ending. He blames me and says all this is my fault. But damn I lov him. And I have no clue why. I had dozes of boyfriends and was never stupid enough to say I love you to them and to get all caught up like some kinda teenage high school puppy love. No I always kept my heart walled up even when my last talked about marrying me. Nope Kevin Was my only love and will always be. Even till now I can’t stop thinking about him and its been a year. And I still look at his pic and still read his v day cards and old sweet texted from him. From the moment I fell in love with him I prayed so hard for him to change and if it he wasn’t the one for me then let it end now. But he always crept back into my heart. I prayed to God please if he isn’t the one please don’t have him call or text me again. But it never happens and we were always back together. I don’t blame God for anything. My sins are the reason why this is happening. And I pray for forgiveness and to help me through this. I can find a new guy but I’m not attracted to anyone anymore. I just want him back. But I know unless Kevin turned around it will never be. And funny thing is I know Kevin still loves me. I believed he always have despite his actions. But he was not willing to give up the pleasures of his fun hey I’m still young lifestyle for me. I am different for him. I was raise in a Christian house hold and even though he believes in God that’s about it. He’s a good person and that all that matters to GOd that’s how he sees it. There’s two sides to him. One side wants me but the other side of him wants his freedom. With me means coming home after work and doing the family routine and not going out and having fun. Also we have baby making alone time between us almost impossible he loves Being alone with his girl.
I don’t know why I’m saying all this to you guys. I guess I’m hurt just like most of you. No one can help me or you we can’t even help ourselves. Only GOd can. Do I think GOd will bring my love back? I don’t know. But I pray he does. I mean this is my family and my family is broken. All I want is to fix it. My sister said let go of Kevin and God answer my prayers. God can do anything. She also said maybe God is doing his to change Kevin. Cuz I really don’t know what GOd is putting in his heart and maybe God is giving me a chance to find the perfect man and Kevin was nothing but an example of what I didn’t need so when I do find my real love I know better. In the end. What can you do but pray and let to and let God deal with it. It’s ok to want him and its ok to miss him and everything but stop trying to keep something going cuz it’s not gonna work. The more you try the faster it will burn out but the more you let go the brighter it will burn. Let to. Easier said than done but its all we can do. I stopped trying to be with Kevin and everything I still cry about it and I cry to GOd to help me and I just vent to God. It has gotten easier. I see him four times a week picking up our daughter in his gfs car and I look in those blue eyes and and he’s looking like he’s in a tough spot for whatever reason and all I do is smile and be polite and ask him how’s work why he’s upset or stress out. And that’s it. It has gotten alot better but I will always love him a d cuz of I do I will always miss him making my heart ache for him. But I will keep praying. Look at my daughter, God just made her all better overnight and drs and nurses can’t explain anything. So I know God listens to us and knows our pains and desires. Know when it’s just heart ache or the fear of God letting you down. I think most of you worry worry that this guy won’t come back and I. A sense your not trusting God. If you trust God to bring him back you wouldnt be in this great deal of pain. That’s not pain from a broken heart that’s the devil putting these feelings into your heart to make you doubt GOd. The devil will use anything to get your to lose faith in God. If pray and have doubt then yes your praying waiting will be all in vain. Think why is God not answering me? check yourself as a christian. Pray to God not just when you need him. Pray for things that according to his ways. Pray with faith in the God. Feel lonely miss him but be brave about it and have faith that’s its going to be ok. I’m in a tuff spot I have a child with him and he has someone new. But I have my baby really there is no love like the love a mother has for her child.it breaks me even more that I can’t do what I wish with daughter I can’t take her here and there and see her any day at any time. It’s hard to see her go for a few hours four days a week and she comes back smelling like cheap perfume and knowing she napped in the bed and kevin and his girlfriend had sex on. That’s the hardest part of all this mess and knowing A few hours become longer and then becomes over nights and then summer vacation as she spends time with dad and his family bad mouthing me and trying to put her against me. But again I have to have faith in God that he will watch over my daughter and put it in her heart the truth. I just need do my best as a mom to ensure that and she will see for herself what is true and not. Good luck all of you. Pray for me as I pray for you.
Wow – just found this blog. Brought here by God. I fell in love with someone 3 years ago. We had an amazing connection, but due to the circumstances we were involved in we couldn’t date (and no, neither of us is married or involved with other people). That situation ended and I stuffed up. He had asked me out but due to the situation we were in, I got scared and said goodbye to him – and I screwed up majorally. I rang him the next day and told him what I really meant – he was good but said he had things he had to sort out first and then we’d go out and talk about us. He is a sex addict and functional alcoholic. I fell in love with him knowing this – yet his addictions grew after I told him how I felt about him. I was/am devastated. The situation we were in caused me to lose my career, reputation, friends walked out of my life, and caused major stress and heartache to my family and me. To lose him on top of all of this has been too much. I have always believed in God and have always handed my problems over to him. Yet none of those problems have ever been fixed – and only suffered more heartache. But in desperation, I really turned to god – now and always. I pray every day to God to help this man overcome, free him and heal him of his addictions and true intimacy/commitment issues and if it’s God’s will, with his divine grace and mercy we will find our way back to each other. I don’t deserve a miracle from God – I created the problem and yet I ask God to fix it – so I only hope God’s grace and love will restore things if it is his will. I know I have a lot of doubts and fears that God won’t allow this miracle, so maybe that is why it hasn’t happened – or maybe the miracle is for me to keep turning to God when the impossible seems to happen and restore my faith even if things aren’t happening (or what I can see anyhow). Will pray for you all xxoo
I, too, have been brought here while searching for answers as to why God would bring someone into my life only to have him let go and leave me devastated. I may never have the answers, but I truly feel that God put this man into my life and I don’t think that we are finished with each other. Is this my heart or my head? I don’t know, but he is my love and I want to grow with him in Christ, I just do.
I will continue to grow in my faith and my walk with God, while in my heart hope and pray that we can reconcile our relationship that was headed to marriage.
Its really hard to go thru a break up. I have been suffering since few months since we parted in June or so. My guy and I worked in the same office. He became all in all to me. Love him so much. Never had i given any one such love other than my family. I was never so occupied with any other guy till then. My family is the whole world to me, but when he entered my life, he occupied the same position as my family in my heart. A good guy, still some fault in our understanding. As I had to leave the job because of certain issues, this stretched the distance between us. The distance parted us. Many times I convinced him so much, told him that it is hard for me to be without him, but he is not convinced. He forgot and declined all the promises he made. I tried my level best and there is nothing more that i can do. When we parted, I even blamed God why he parted us. I tried all means but nothing worked out. He finally said “no”. When i shared it with my closest friend, she asked me to shout on him or else she will scold him, I refused. I told her I still love him and will pray for him, she left me. I even lost my closest friend. In that agony, i shared my pain with one person who is close to me any also to my love. When he came to knw that i told her, he became more furious and thinks that i cheated him. i did not tell anyone purposefully, in that agony i could not bear it.
Even now, when he kicked me out of his life and heart, and wrote so painful mails to me, I dont knw how i still love him so much. Im praying each day to God to unite us both.
Everyone says its not Gods will and love is something a greatest sin. What is wrong in marrying a person whom we love. Its the other way round in arranged marriage that we have to love some one who is appointed by some one else. But how blunt it appears! Love is afterall a feeling and not a mechanical work that can be possible without heart. God loves us and he wants us to be close to him, LOVE is LOVE in every case. Why is it taken as lust in case of people, specially when one thinks to marry a person. Its only a reason to show our incapability or something else or to avoid something.
May be its not possible with us. But the God we trust is a God with whom is every thing possible. He can stop the sun, make the path in the sea, give strength to walk on water and also to break the walls of Jericho in silence.
I trust only one thing. ” When i am at work, My hands work, When I pray, God’s hand is at work.
But i lost my faith many times when ppl shout all the time it is not Gods will, it is not Gods will, and it is not Gods will. But how can God be so unjust to ask us to sacrifice our love. it is also very impossible and seems stupid to learn and exercise to love someone else, besides losing the one whom we love. Suddenly, when i came across this site, i saw the answer given by “ASIANJESUSLOVER”. that is the reply i ever waited for. I dont knw who u r but pls pray that I should get my heart back. I knw he loved me so much first, now he hates me, but God should change his heart.
I really love him, i love him and love him and love him more than what i really love myself. He did not understand the way he must understand my love. Pls pray for a miracle in my life that brings us together (which really seems impossible) and gives us a heart of understanding towards each other. Pls dont give me a counsel or reply that this is impossible. Pls i beg u, i cant tolerate it.
I want to grow in faith and see this miracle thru faith and walk much closer to God in faith, not all alone but with my heart and me bound in marriage.
Reading this was borderline creepy, because it sounded EXACTLY like me. I could have written this myself. I wish I had an answer (I don’t). All I know… all I have is the hurt, and not understanding God, and wishing things would change and hoping that maybe they would, and somewhat comforted by the idea that someone else knows exactly how painful this whole situation is. I’m sure you won’t ever check this again, but I am so curious to hear how things turned out for you. Hopefully well, in whatever way things passed. xoxo.
I want to get my lover back in my life plz tell me the prayer to get him back soon.
I had a similar experience when I met this man who pierced my heart when I saw him. I knew I loved him and was incredibly attracted to him and vice-versa. However, when we came close to one another it all fell apart. I accepted this as God’s way of telling me its not our time to be together or perhaps this man isn’t good for me. God has a plan for everyone. He knows our names and he truly knows what is best for you, for me, and for everyone. Though we may think and feel that we have been deprived of someone or something that we love and then it’s snatched away from us is a true sign that perhaps we aren’t ready or that person isn’t ready. Someone who is just right for us will come along or God will re-unite us with the one he/she took away. Have faith and live your life to the fullest for tomorrow the daylight may not shine for you.
My boyfriend of 6 years asked for a break to get his head strait. We didn’t talk for several days and when we did he told me that, upon self-reflection, he saw so many horrible things and has so much guilt. Things he needs to forgive others for, things he needs to forgive himself for. Then he tells me he has feelings for his ex. He doesn’t know what those feelings even are. If it’s love, guilt, remorse. You see, when they were together they were addicts. She did horrible things to him. From biting and stabbing him to stealing from him, etc. He got into treatment and has been clean for over 7 years. But she wasn’t ready to get clean. He left her because he had to make that lifestyle change and get healthy.
So here we are, 6 years together and he says he has to search his heart and see what he feels for her in order to move on. He tells me he loves me and everything like that. He was my world. Then my son said something to me. “God should be your first love. Your world. When you raise anyone above him as your most important thing, he will remove it from your like. The bible says he is a jealous God.” So yeah. There you go.
Wow the responses (especially last one) were so true. I had a lot of promotional dreams (all have come true except for one is only half way). In the dream I met a man (who at the time I didn’t know), but I knew he was made for me. We were at my house that I had built for the Lord, where I reside with the Lord spiritually, and it was BEAUTIFUL. (At the time I was very in love with my God, and always have been). The man in my dream even though I knew was made for me, gave me the sensation I wanted to puke. I had a strong push, and pull towards him.
Well, in the end I call wolves from the mountains down (which the bible says is -symbolic of a vicious person or a spiritual enemy, Ezek. 22:27, Matt. 10:16 (wolves) from -a large mountain can symbolize the prosperity and favor of God on your life, Ps. 30:6 or Mountains can also symbolize nations or life’s journey, Isa. 2:2, Jer. 51:25). Which makes me know I’ve caused, and he leaves.
In the end, I sulk in a tiny back room of this house (least nice house), and sit there, and wait. He comes in, and tells me he wants no one but me. We kiss, and the passion was so powerful.
Well 2 weeks after this amazing dream I met the man (I could tell by his eyes). I felt sick, and was so uncomfortable (even though I wouldn’t leave him, and knew I loved him). Will we dated, and like in the dream I call bad energy from somewhere greater than me to mess it up. I would not understand unconditional love, and it would cause me pain. It would make him leave.
After that I moved into seclusion, and started to worship the Lord for even the small miracles. To go into my cave, and pray. The part I wasn’t as keen to keeping up (spiritually).
He has not come back yet, but when I ask to see him the Lord gives me dreams. His family (even ones I’ve not met) thank me for being patient. That he will come back. I know these are God’s way of supporting me, and know to keep pushing forward. That’s more than he will be thankful for who he becomes with my writing.
I pray for him regularly (relationships was something I didn’t give God a lot of credit for), and give God credit. I still get down, and anxiety over take me (the devil trying to mess things up), but I pray for the Lord to let me feel HIS love for me, and to put up a border between the devil, and I. He always does this, and then I find things like this.
I believe that this is a God graced relationship, and that he will come back to me. That we were to meet, and then move on. I would know, and pray, and he would go off. Leaving me in the smallest recessed of what I’ve got left to learn by being in love with God. Even though I have worshipped faithfully for 25 years, I still had places that weren’t perfect. That needed work. He would bring my attention to this, and when it was in the process he would come back.
At the end of the dream, I see his eyes, but before that he had no eyes, ears, and only a mouth. (A gleaming, smiling face symbolizes joy and peace. A face without eyes, ears, or mouth is symbolic of being deaf and dumb to the gospel, Ezek. 12:2). So he spoke the gospel, and expressed that he believed in God, and Jesus, but was deaf, and dumb to the gospel. When he comes back his eyes are wide (symbolic of watching, seeing, or knowing, Prov. 15:3. Large eyes are symbolic of seeing everything), and shows me that during this time God will open his eyes, and ears. I will already know, but he will be shown through this time.
Dear god I really love this guy Lakeram. Please help me to bring him back to my life please…I love him with all my heart and I want to spend the rest of my life with him please god can you help
In the name of My Lord Jesus Christ, I believe and I receive that our my relationship with Amrit will be restored, our love for each other will be restored, our faithfulness to each other will be restored and our future with each other will be solidified and sanctified in the name and blood of Christ.
God you alone know, that you’re my only hope…
yours
Joel
So my ex boyfriend just recently broke up with me. I have been feeling miserable for the past weeks. I turned to God, and asked, “God why did you let this happen to me? I know that you brought us together in the first place for a reason.” So then I realized that with God all things are possible, and if I keep having faith in God then know that He will bring us back together again.
I feel like God sends signs for a typical reason, so when you wake up ask yourself, “What does this sign mean?” Your signs can even happen in reality too as well. All I am saying is to not give up, and to keep having faith in the Lord God, and to believe that God will make your miracle blessings happen. Ask Jesus for forgiveness, and trust God and know that He will bring the one whom He brought you together with in the first place. And most importantly…GOD’S NOT DEAD!
I’ve been reading all of these testimonies and I too am currently in the same situation as you guys. Me and my recent ex broke up maybe 2 months ago and I’ve been feeling miserable ever since. It’s such a burden on me because I feel like I am the reason that we didn’t work out and I keep constantly thinking “if I haven’t done this then we probably would’ve still been together” i want him back I really do. I would do anything (within reason) to get him back because I felt like he was the one and that we were perfect for each other. I still love him and I want him back but it seems like he has already moved on and it’s making me feel even worse. I do feel like God took him out of my life because my relationship with him wasn’t where it needed to be and I feel that if I put my trust and faith in him then soon I will get my ex back. Please pray that I get him back because in my heart I feel like he was the right one for me.
My ex and I broke up a few weeks ago. At first I was heartbroken wondering why God would take him away from me. After further realization and clarity from God I realized we couldn’t be together because we both need to find God. He is a broken young man with a lot of pain in his life. I wanted to fix him and fix his problems. I believe the lord was telling me that I cannot heal him only I can. So now all I can do is pray for him to find God.
I still hope God brings him back to me in the future . I always thought he was brought to me by God perhaps to marry him one day. As naive as it is I will hold on to that hope. I hope that once he is fixed and repaired God will bring us back together again. I love him so much so it’s hard. All I wanted was to marry him one day. However he was 19 and I’m 20. I know God brought us together for a reason. For a 19 year old he experienced more pain than some middle aged adults. I believe God told me that I can’t take that responsibility especially at such a young age.
If not I thank god for bringing him in my life because through him I found God again.
Hey everyone I’m also in the same situation. I gave this man my life and heart and he recently broke up with me because he said he could never love me the way I loved him. He’s in love with Jesus but I believe you can love Jesus with all your heart and also still love another person. Please God bring him back to me, I’ve always been supportive of his beliefs and he brought me closer to God. I know he’s the man of my life and I want to know what it is that’s holding him back from loving me. Please pray for me everyone please God bring him back to me
It’s been about 3 weeks that I’ve been single. I don’t understand why we are broken up. He stopped answering my calls and my texts. This was off and on for 2 months.
He told his family we were broken up but didn’t tell me. This was after 2 years of dating both my daughter and I are heartbroken. Although he is not her biological father she loves him as if he is. I have been praying and reading my bible daily that the Lord will bring him back into our lives.
This experience has brought me closer to God and I know that only God can bring us back together. I have faith that he will return and it won’t be long. Please pray with me that Joe returns. I know that God let us meet twice and we instantly fell in love. I know that Joe still loves me and everyone says move on but I’m not moving on until God tells me to move on.
Please pray for God to restore my relationship.
I understand the hurt. I met an awesome man of God in whom I love. We are solid friends and was on pace to become in a relationship. I am so in love with him. He told me he could see himself falling in love with me and that we are connected. Lately he has been withdrawn. He used to show me so much affection and now nothing. I am the one always calling, texting, trying to keep an open line of communication. I have told him how I feel about him. I also always support him, show genuine interest in his life and am always there for him.
It hurts so bad because I know we would be a wonderful couple. We would be an awesome duo working together for God. I just want to love him and have him love me back. I’m praying and asking God to restore our connection and fortify our love for each other. In my heart I know he is the one. Please pray with me….my specific request is that we both love each other only, remain faithful to one another, put God first, marry and live a fulfilled happy God-filled life…#iBelieve
Trusting God nothing is in possible with God. I’m going to talk to my ex tomorrow. Please pray with me that he is willing to communicate with me.
I am so broken that words cannot describe how i feel. I lost the man i love with my whole heart due to certain reasons (none of us did anything wrong). I have never loved a man the way i love Jonathan! Now i believe that God might have separated us so we can grow in our faith and i am not angry at God at all for this separation, instead i will keep praying to him and for the love of my life as well. I would also like to ask then you kindly keep me in your prayers too, not only for my love, but most importantly for my Growth in Christ!! Thank you all and God bless you!!
It’s been more than a week since the man I love stepped out of my life after 4 years together. I’m still crushed and afraid of the changes in my life. I’ve also never had the kind of bond we had together with anyone else in my entire life. I believe God gave him to me and I’m still confused of why he took him away… I don’t blame God, and for some reason aside from my feelings for him, I feel God will find a way to get us back together the right way. I love him so much and I know God won’t let me down. Please pray for me and my love. God bless all of you <3
I believe that I may be able to help a lot of you by sharing what I am going through and my mindset. I am going through the exact same thing as everyone here and I came into this website looking for answers by searching “Will God bring him back” because I was looking for reassurance or confirmation, and God gave it to me through all of you so thank you. I want to tell you a little about what I am going through and then tell you about my perspective on this. My boyfriend of three years and I broke up more than a month ago because there are a lot of things happening and we can’t be together now according to him. I know that he loves me and that it wasn’t an easy decision for him, and I know I love him deeply too but right now things are just not working. I am 20 years old and he is 23, but he has gone through a lot in his life and he is way more mature than a lot of people his age. I must admit that a lot of our problems came because I was a lot less mature than him and my life literally revolved around him. I always put him before me and I lived my life through him. I have always wanted to do a lot of things like help animals and find a job, but I never actually took the steps to do it. In other words, I was not productive at all and spent my days watching TV after arriving from classes waiting for him.
During these years I did believe in God, but I didn’t go to church or had any kind of relationship with Him. My ex had periods where he was close to God, but then others in which he was not. After he broke up with me I felt as if my heart was ripped off my chest and my world fell. From talking and seeing each other everyday, we went to not talking at all, and I haven’t talked to him since at all. The following days, nothing could comfort me, I mean NOTHING. One day someone told me to pray, and after that I found myself looking for God and needing him. This is where my relationship with God started. He is the only one who can comfort me, make me feel hopeful and faithful, happy, at peace, and calm, and I know that he was always there just waiting for me to come looking for him. Now, every day I read the Bible, pray and talk to God constantly about everything, and try to learn from him and get close to him as much as possible. I literally feel like I am another person. I know that a month is not much at all, but believe me when I say that in this month I have grown as a person more than I ever have in more than a year. My relationship with God has led me to be a better person, and I have begun to do all the things that I’ve always wanted to do. I have taken this time to focus on me, on what I need to do to have a better future and to help others, to live the way God has intended me to. I have plans and goals which I didn’t had before and every day I strive to learn and grow as much as I can because I know that it is what God wants from me.
I know that what is happening to me is all in God’s plan for me. I am sure that in his plan was for my boyfriend and I to break up, for me to search for God and start a relationship with him which is the most important thing, because if you don’t have a relationship with God how are you going to have a relationship with anyone else, and to start thinking about me and my future, and what I want to do, and to mature and grow as much as I could. If my boyfriend didn’t break up with me, then I wouldn’t have a relationship with God and I wouldn’t be going through all of these positive changes of my attitude, perspective, and faith. This is when all the pieces start to fall together. If I had stayed with my ex, we probably wouldn’t have lasted very much because I needed to grow and God needed to work with him in different ways. Now, I am becoming more mature, appreciative, and more aware of things, and I am becoming the person that I know I need to be in order to be in a future relationship with my ex. I am becoming the kind of women he needs, and he is becoming the type of man I need. I don’t know exactly how God is working with him, but I know that he is.
With that being said, I know that God had to separate us in order to put us right back together and unite us again. I have faith that this is a process that is part of his plan where he is repairing me and my ex as individuals, and at the same time, our relationship as a whole. I have extreme faith that right now God is restoring and reestablishing my relationship with my ex as everyday passes, and I have faith that one day he is going to bring him back into my life and we are going to get married and have a family. Yes, I know that people say that what is happening means that God has something better in store, and I am sure and have faith that Yes, he has a better relationship between us in store and a better future together. Everyday I think of him, but when I get sad, I remember that this is part of God’s plan and that I just need to have faith in God that he will bring my ex and I together. My relationship with God and my faith in him its what is saving me right now. I don’t know if God is going to reunite us, but I do know that if I have faith, god will listen to me and answer my prayers.
I want to encourage all of you that are going through the same thing, to not get fooled by what you see. All you need to do is first develop a true relationship with God, and then just follow His plan for you. Start seeing your break-up as something that needed to happen in order to fulfill what God wants to do with you. See how can you work yourself to a better relationship with God, and at the same time, God will help you with the relationships in your life. Pray everyday and have faith that God is listening, that God is answering your prayers and working on them as soon as they come out of your mouth. You just need to wait.
In the mean time, ask him for his guidance, and look for messages or signs from him that will help you get day by day. Just like me, have faith that God is restoring your relationship, and just leave it all to him. Put your relationship in his hands. If you have enough faith, every day will be a growing experience and one step closer for God’s plan for you to be revealed. If you truly feel in your heart that your ex is the one for you, don’t you dare give up. Ask God and he will give it to you. Don’t let what you see put you down, because what is important for you to listen to God and for you to have faith that God is restoring your relationship. I hope that this post helps as many people as possible, and I hope that some may identify themselves with it. I wish all of you the best! I will pray for all of you, and if you like, please pray for me and my relationship.
God bless all of you
That was so beautiful I want to know how you and your ex are doing. You gave me hope I thought it was kind of creepy to pray for someone to come back into our lives because I was taught you can’t pray to change someone’s free will… I wanted to prayed for me and my ex to get back together but if he doesn’t want me back I thought I couldn’t change his will by praying for him to do something he doesn’t want to do… But if you can get back in contact with me I would really appreciate it thank you and my God bless you
Thank you
My ex boyfriend for 5yrs & 5 months had given up already after our on & off relationship. he said he’s already unhappy and he didnt feel the same he did before. i always doubted and question him about his love towards me. he said he love me but i cant see it on his actions much. i felt he doesnt want to be around me, rejecting my invitations to be with me, he’s not calling or texting me. i dont know if im right. but somehow i feel that im the reason why he felt distant about me because for him im a nagger and hot-tempered. but i really feel that he is the one for me. i prayed to god to change me, to be a better person then one day it happened (we broke up). its been 2 months already, he’s not showing any signs that he still loves me. he’s ignoring me and he liked already someone right after we broke up. but still i want us to get back together. maybe we just needed a break to repair ourselves and to be ready in the future because he’s not yet ready to commit. and im not yet spiritually and emotionally ready. i have this strong feeling that god will give him back to me at the perfect time of god. pls help me pray also. thank you
I was searching for some advice on the same thing that most of you were searching for. My boyfriend and I have been best friends for 5 years and together for 2 years and 3 months. We’re in a long distance relationship (about 2 hours apart) and we’ve just been arguing a lot more recently, some of it was over small things and some was over some bigger problems we have in our relationship, like communication problems and some more stuff. Well, recently we broke up. We plan to remain friends, but it’s so hard. I love him, and he did bring me closer to God, but to be honest, I lost myself in my love for him. I try my best to pray everyday, I knew he was the one when we were just friends years ago, every time something happened in our lives where we cut each other off, or didn’t talk for awhile, we always came back to each other. Our relationship in person was great, but the distance is kind of hard to deal with.
I’m supposed to try to visit him in the next 2 weeks and I was planning to just be my normal self and to sit down and have a talk about all this when ever we got a chance to. I asked him if he still wanted me to visit, and he said if I wanted to, I could.. And that there would be no hard feelings. I’ve been praying for God to remove things from my life that weren’t sent by him, including my ex. But I don’t believe God is trying to fully remove him from my life.
I made a promise to God and broke it, and asked for forgiveness, I know God is forgiving, but I think I may have over stepped my boundaries and trying to satisfy myself and my ex and ended up losing my man for it. My friend believes that maybe God is just separating us for now so that we can get our minds and hearts focused on God, and then maybe God will send us back to each other. Like my ex always said, God would forgive us for our sins, and that he’s not perfect. But every time he would say he would try his best to not sin. But it ended up happening anyway. I just want to change my life around and actually stick with it and to pray that my ex will change his life around too. It’s like my ex loves me, but he said he doesn’t want to pretend to be something he’s not (he said that a few months ago) he said we were born to sin and that God is loving and forgiving. It’s not like my ex just sins and asks for forgiveness just because he knows he can… he just doesn’t want to try to fully commit and then end up being a huge disappointment. Because the temptation is even hard for me. But if I do visit him, I was going to plan on going to church with him, and talk about getting baptized, only if he was up for it. If my ex isn’t the one for me, then I will wait on God to send me my soulmate. I just believe that my ex is the one though, we click so well in person, we’ve been doing good with the distance up until now. He wants to get baptized one day and told me he wouldn’t mind going to church if I ever wanted to. I just don’t want him to be a lesson in my life, I just pray that God will let him come back to me and stay.
I NEVER prayed for someone I dated, idk why. But when fell in love with my ex, I started praying more. My ex used to call me and I’d put him on hold so I could go pray. He even prayed for us before, about our relationship. I feel like he wants it to last, but I just have to try to lead by example and pray for my ex to work on the things that he needs to work on, and work on our own personal relationship with God. I’ve never prayed in front of him. But I tell him what I pray about and we both talk about the type of relationship we want with God. I just don’t want to lose faith that its over between us. Like a post I read on here, I think God got angry with me and my broken promise, and he took someone I really love away from me so that I can turn back to him and focus my love on him (God). I really wanna do right, I want my ex back and I want to be able to have a really good relationship with God and to hopefully one day get married to my ex.
I feel like my ex was sent from God, he accepts me, flaws and all, takes risks for me and he helped me figure out a lot of things about myself that I didn’t know. He showed me what it was like to be with a gentleman and we were getting along so good, but we started being selfish and that’s probably why we’re here now. I just don’t want to lose him, works in mysterious ways, while we are apart, I plan to work on myself as much as I can and as best as I can and I’m going to pray for my ex to do the same. And for us both to come closer to God. I just love him so deeply and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. The things we have problems with can be fixed, with the help of God…He told me we could be friends and that if we’re meant to be then we will find our way back to each other… I’m just praying that we will. Please keep us in your prayers and also pray that we will grow closer to God individually and together. I will do the same! Thank you .
I had almost given up, and out of the blue I just searched “will God bring him back”. Seeing your posts has really been an eye opener, and an assurance that God is really working in my life. at the moment i’m not quite sure if having him back is what I really want, and I’ve just decided to let God do His work. if we are meant to be, then he will definitely come back… and if not, then I look forward to what God has in store for me.
My ex and I didn’t really end things the usual way where someone would say its over or something like that. We just stopped talking, the next thing I know his not answering my texts or calls.
I decided to enjoy God’s presence in my life, the warmth, love that He blesses me daily. The rest will fix itself. Stay blessed
I too believe I have been led to this page. Reading your posts, reminds me I am not alone. Its been a long three months trying hard to get over my ex.
I am filled with so much guilt and sadness. I may have lost the man I truly hoped for. In fact I prayed to meet him. God sent him and instead of embracing him. I let negative people affect our relationship. His ex wife did everything she could to get under my skin. I started believing her and started distrusting him.
Through my ex I found the church again. Why do I have to lose him to realize how much he meant to me. I love him so much I feel numbed inside. I trust that God has a reason for everything. I trust and pray that my ex will give our relationship another chance. If not God has a plan for me and trust I will see it soon.
My story is very similar to all of the posts here. The only difference is that my ex was borderline agnostic and i was the long time believer. He wasn’t athiest, but he experienced a lot of hardship that weakened his faith. He grew closer to God during our relationship. He treated me with respect and we shared a lot of core values. I hadn’t dated in almost 7yrs. Upon meeting him because i wanted to wait for a quality guy. I was tired of dating and i prayed that the next one, would be “the one.”I truely believed he was “the one” but we couldn’t agree on ONE thing. I didn’t believe in pre-marital sex, but he did. He was very very patient with me and willing to wait, just not until marriage. We discussed our differences early on in the relationship, but we pretty much swept the topic under the rug and continued to date because we were so into each other. This was not a good idea because i became doubleminded, and i had anxiety about our relationship ending over these differences. I was back and forth about my stance. so we both got fustrated and called it quits. I was devastated. Initially, i questioned God as to why it didn’t work out, but i eventually came up with a few theories as to why this happened.
Theory1. This was a seasonal relationship. Perhaps God placed me into his life to strengthen his faith, or God is preparing me for my future husband. Keeping a seasonal relationship would only throw me off track.
Theory2. This guy was “the one” but i destroyed the relationship with my doubleminded actions and now God is working on us individually, so that we can have a better relationship though him.
I miss my ex very much, and hopefully we’ll get back together. If not, i trust God’s plan even if i don’t understand it right now. I will have the victory, and i plan to have an update for everyone regardless of the outcome. Stay encouraged everyone. It will get better!
It is a little bit complicated, We live in another country each other. Amm we met on net, but we planned to met each other because I don’t need visa to come to her country. God was the center of our love, we wanted to study theology and dedicate our life to GOD, to serve GOD and do His will together, preach the gospel of GOD together. I was looking for a job during a year and I could not get it. She broke with me, She said she had lost her faith about me coming there and she was afraid of just waiting there. She asked me to be just a friend. I said yes, but I could not see her just as a friend, and she could not too. I try no to write to her during a little time but I was thinking of her everyday.
After I wrote her back, She told me she still feel for me and everything, but She’s with someone else now, I told her, how will you get married and feel what you feel for me? it would not make sense. She cried.
After that, she told me she was not feeling alright and she deleted her fb. I wrote her an email, and she told her:
I stayed thinking, so I wrote her this:
She told me this:
I wrote her this:
She told me this:
I never see such love like this, amm won’t be worth for you Joan, becauz I …… many bad things against you!
I said this to her:
She said this:
And I said this to her:
She told me this:
Just a moment ago, they called me for a Job, and I know by the grace of GOD, I can early there next year, I miss her. I need a miracle from GOD for everything be like before, I love her and I don’t want to lost her, but she still feel same for me, she is afraid of breaking with him, I understand to her, I know GOD united us and what GOD united can not be broken. If she does not feel for him as she feels for me, that means GOD has another person for him. If GOD has not removed her feeling for me, it is for a reason, I pray during all day to GOD, because I need a miracle. Please, pray all of you with me, in order this miracle happen, she still love me as I love her but I am asking GOD to show her the right decision and take her back to me.
Firstly I want to thank God for leading me this post. I too have a story to tell, its kinda long but very interesting.
I’m a mom of two. My kids father wasn’t a good person to be involved in. After 4 years dealing with his crap I left him and remained alone for 3 long years. I developed an excellent relationship with God and in return he blessed me with so much! There was nothing I wanted except a man to share my love and blessings we with. I prayed for my ideal man for years when God finally brought him into my life..
I met my ex boyfriend November 2014. I had been working at a job that hadn’t been giving me many hours and I was suffering! It had been a hard time for me. I was baptized August 2014 (praise the Lord!) But unfortunately I lost my job that I had been at for 4 years, just 3 days later. I quickly found another job but the pay and hours just wasn’t there. I prayed so hard for this particular job to call me back for weeks! One day they did call back and I got the job, making good money!
Then I met him! He wasn’t my type at all. But something about him drew me in. After a week of fighting feelings, I finally agreed to a date! We had sooo much in common! He had a hard life and was just saved himself.
Unfortunately he still had doubt’s about God because he never built a relationship with him. I prayed to God and thanked him for bringing me the man I had been praying for! I also asked that he help me love this man unconditionally and feel the love that he never felt. Things were going great! He got along with my kids, we worked together great! He became the love of my life. Mind you, he’s 22 and I’m 27. I’ve loved before, he said he had not. That became a problem later on.
My baby sis was shot and killed March 2015. After that, my life started spinning out of control..
Me and him both fought constantly. I believed at the.time it was his bipolar disorder and that if I hung in there, God would remove the anger that was inside him. I even prayed for it, but no such luck. Eventually his anger and the anger I had for the people who killed my sister ate away at us. There were days where I wanted to run like hell, but I loved him and I knew he needed my love. Soon the police where I lived started harassing him and that added to his anger but we promised to work it out. We even planned a baby, but God put a stop to that. Tried for 3 months, and no baby!! I couldn’t believe how horrible life was treating me! And then as if I couldn’t take anymore, in October 2015 I found out my boyfriend was gonna be working in a different building and that I required surgery. I was a mess!! We still fought bt still promised to fight for our love harder.
Well he walked out of my life October 31st. He left me. He ignored me. He blocked me. And he got a new girlfriend.
I am so hurt! I don’t understand how God could take him from me like that?? I realized I wasn’t perfect, but I still loved him unconditionally. I won’t give up tho. I know he was led to me. We encountered issues that could be fixed, bt now he doesn’t want to fix them?
I cry every day and every nite. I’ve never loved a man like him. I literally had just came home and broke down becuz today I seen him for the 1st time in almost 2 months. He wouldn’t look at me but I felt the hurt between us both. I feel like he misses me and is too prideful to admit it. I feel like he’s using this new girl as a way to hurt me or get over me.. But why? I was faithful and loyal. I may have said mean things out of anger but he was my world. So as I read your posts, my hope and faith has surged. Maybe God is working on us both?? Maybe we weren’t ready and he’s giving us time to realize what we want before we get too ahead of ourselves? All summer we talked about marriage and babies and a long life together. I want that back. I want him back. And now I will work on my patience and hope that God will bring him back to me. That our love can be restored and even perfected by God. I will pray for you all, will you pray for me?
Wow I just read you story and it’s so similar to mine I’m more than sure God sent me to this site for more understanding but I’m just so confused although like you said maybe God is working on me and my ex both and just maybe we weren’t ready at that time in our lives or maybe he removed him from my life because we’re not meant to be ? But hopefully that’s not the case for me because I truly love him
From reading all of these posts, it has given me hope. I just met a Christian gentlemen about a week ago. Appeared to be someone I could spend time with. However I said something stupid, and it upset him. Please pray for us that if its in God’s will we will start back communicating again. I texted and apologized to him. It’s in the Lord’s hand. I will pray for everyone situation on this site. God bless everyone.
I am fed up with all of this, all the sadness and pain you are feeling. It’s a cruelty. There is enough suffering in the world, enough hardship going on. If you people, if I too wasn’t being distracted by all the pain of a broken heart, think how much positive energy we could direct towards improving things, think how much good we could do. But instead we struggle to get through the days, to make sense of the world, sometimes even to stay alive. I have prayed everyday for over 6 months and nothing has changed; I feel worse than ever in fact. What is the point in this? I am losing all hope as I am forced to crawl along in inconsolable pain knowing that God could prevent it all but chooses not to do so.
Im really frustrated and confused right now because ive been dating this guy on & off for 2 years. We went out when we were 15 and now were 17 but we broke up about a week ago. Im christian and hes a catholic. For so long hes been the clingy one in the relationship and i never doubted how much he loved me. I knew that he really loved me up until a month ago, i felt like he never had time for me because he had soccer practice and he was always tired that he never even had time to call me! my parents dont really allow me to have a bf but they tolerated it. I love him so much and it was weird because i recently just gave myself away (as in i gave all my emotions and all my love to him) and then he suddenly dumps me and says that he wants to be with his friends now… He said he doesnt know how to love me anymore (because i keep asking if he still does) and then he said that he also cant love me the same way as before and he said that hes changed. He tells me that it isnt my fault and that its him.. He also said that he would be fine if i understood that it wasnt my fault for him leaving. I also feel like he’s been chatting to his ex and i feel like hes already been moving on… I pray everyday to god for a second chance and that if i did get a second chance, i would base our relationship on him, under his name. I really dont know what to do… I dont wanna move on but at the same time i do. I just cant see myself falling in love because i truly love him. I am convinced that he was a blessing from God. I love him so much…
My story is about lost love 29 years ago. I was 19 and Bill was 24. We were introduced by his father, who I worked with at the time.
We spoke on the phone and decided to go out. He was the perfect gentleman and got along so well. There was a second date…New Years Eve at his Dad’s house. Our relationship became so intense that it scared me because I was so young. I walked away for a couple of weeks and remember praying to God about what to do. One day I went to his fathers office and there was a new picture of Bill on his fathers wall. I noticed it and his Dad admitted that Bill missed me and asked him to put it up. I told his dad to have him call me and we were inseparable for 7 months. We had such fun just being together…it didn’t matter what we did. We became best friends.
But, office politics got in the way and suddenly his father wasn’t approving of me. I encouraged him to break away on his own as his parents were divorced and the split damaged him terribly as his mother was German and had to leave him. Unfortunately, the work he was doing dried up and he wasn’t working. I was and vowed to help him. But, I had a sick grandpa in Georgia and needed to go away for a week to ensure he wasn’t being abused at the nursing home he was in. One week turned into two because there was a lot of mistreatment going on and I was gathering evidence for my Dad.
When I came back, he had moved out of his apartment. I figured he had gone back home, but couldn’t confirm it through his father as he now hated me and called me a Jezebel at the very least. Then I lost my job because of his father and others as it was a race thing. (I am white and he was Hispanic.) I couldn’t call him because I never knew who would answer the phone.
He would send me the most beautiful letters and poetry…telling me that I was the only one for him as he could never love another. At the same time I had someone in a couple of my classes in school that became obsessed with me to the point it was scary. If anyone looked at me twice either he would follow that person and threatened them to the point they would avoid me like the plague. One day he was at my house as my sister was dating his best friend. Bill called begging for me to come back and kept telling me how much he loved me. With the abuser watching I told him I didn’t love him anymore and that I had moved on. It broke my heart. My sister had told the abuser about the letters I had received. The letters disappeared.
One day a final letter came and my Mom took me for a drive so I could read it. It made me so sad. My parents hated the abuser and my mom asked me outright if I loved Bill. I told her I did, but told her that he had lost his mother and that had a devastating effect on him…I didn’t want to come between him and his dad. My mom said they would support any decision I made and sadly I decided to walk away.
The abuser physically and emotionally abused me for two years. He raped me and had me stalked while he was away in the Air Force. Every man who looked my way was threatened and warned to stay away…and they did. I had to leave school because the last time I saw him he held me hostage in my room for several hours while he tore my room apart and emotionally abused me. He stalked me for five years after that. I had a friend at work who was a huge guy who had a menacing look about him. He became my body guard for five years. The abuser had broken into my storage unit and stole all most everything.
The bodyguard became my roommate because the stalking was bad for awhile. However, while I was ver fond of the bodyguard, he fell in love with me. I still loved Bill and couldn’t reciprocate his feelings in the same way. Three years after he moved in I was downtown at a work function at night right before Christmas. At a restaurant, Bill was seated right opposite me at the next table. He looked right at me and looked sad and angry at the same time. One of my coworkers noticed and I had to give her the background. Knowing this couldn’t get back to the bodyguard-roommate, we left the restaurant and went to an obscure bar around the corner. An hour later I went back to the restaurant, but he had gone.
Two years later I dreamed about the man I was to marry as his name was given in my dream. I knew that message came from God and sure enough I met that person by that name. I had to leave my apartment as the bodyguard-roommate was devastated. A year later, the man from my dreams proposed and we were to marry six months later.
However, his parents who once loved me, hated me because I had never told them my parents had money. Now I was disliked immensely. His parents did everything they could to sabatoge the wedding. His father about disowned him one night because he was getting ready to verbally attack me about my parents and my fiancé was trying to stop it. His father actually told him to “f-off as he didn’t need him as he had another son he liked better.” They didn’t speak until two days before the wedding.
There were so many other signs that I overlooked because of my dream. A week before the wedding his mother attacked me and I almost called it off. But I saw a story about Princess Diana wanting to do the same thing when she found out about the affair between Charles & Camilla…but her sisters told her it was too late to back out as her name was already on the tea towels. So I went through it and said goodbye to Bill in my mind while speaking with God right before I walked down the aisle.
Three months later I became very sick suddenly and discovered I had a huge tumor on the outside of my uterus. We wouldn’t know if it was cancer or not until after the emergency surgery. My family had lost my beloved grandmother three years earlier to ovarian cancer so emotions were raw with my family. His mother actually had the audacity to tell me to keep my concerns and fears from her son as he needs to be protected and not burdened. The chances of me having a hysterectomy were huge and even if I didn’t, the chances of having children were next to none. While in surgery his father demanded that my father pay all medical bills and missed work because of my preexisting condition. And his father…in front of my family…told him that he could still get an annulment. Well, I didn’t have a hysterectomy or cancer and God blessed us with three daughters if which two were twins.
His parents ended up divorcing as their sons caught their mother cheating on their father…but they had both done this over the years to each other. However, my husband inherited his father’s cruelty as he gets older it gets more pronounced. While he loves our girls he is unnecessarily hard on them like his father was with him. When I married him I knew it wouldn’t be forever. I just had that feeling. We are estranged from his family because how they treat me has infuriated my daughters and the want nothing to do with them. I also now suffer from panic attacks, Menaire’s disease and severe vertigo that will last my entire life. My husband resents me for it. My girls want me to live with them when they are older and want to know why I ever married him. When we were expecting the twins, his father chided him stating that he will never be able to leave me now. So I am sure when the twins are 18 he is gone.
In October on Facebook, I got a friend request from Bill. I didn’t answer it for almost three months as I was praying about what to do. I finally accepted. We spent two weeks talking through Facebook about our lives and what happened all those years ago. He had known where I was working for all those years and never came by because his father had told him my dad would never let him marry me…which wasn’t true. He had seen my marriage announcement in the paper and cried. He married a woman three years later who had two daughters from a previous marriage. She apparently had a miscarriage when he was serving overseas and couldn’t have anymore.
He is working so hard as he has his wife, her two daughters with their husbands and four grandchildren living with them. And it looks like it will remain that way. He said he still loves me and I know he does as I do him. However, last week he shut down on me and has stopped communicating. He said that he wanted to make peace with everyone and that he will always love me but loved his wife too. He found out his dad is dying and I am afraid his brother is having him tow the line in order to get his inheritance. His wife lost a relative and another is having bypass surgery. So, he has so much being thrown at him he has to shut me out.
I had decided to leave my husband in a year when the twins can say who they want to live with and ask for joint custody as I would never shut their father out of their lives. Plus, it isn’t healthy for any of us and I need to set a better example for the girls.
I can’t believe God would put us back in each other’s lives to pull us apart again…that is too cruel. I am devastated and am trying to be strong but cry several times a day when alone. I don’t know if he is going to come back. But he has my numbers…knows where I work (as I do him) and we are still friends on Facebook. But, he won’t answer if I call or respond to my messages. He said he was putting this in God’s hands…which I am doing as well but it still hurts like hell.
First of all, I don’t believe God brought you together with “Bill” through Facebook. You and he were following your own desires and mistakenly think it’s God. I believe, according to scripture God would have you re-read his word concerning marriage and honor your vows to your husband. God is able to re-store both your husband and your marriage. You can choose to obey and follow whatever scripture dictates or your own ideas and desires. I believe you should not have entertained nor confided in Bill while being a married woman. You are both bound before the Lord to others and are muddying the water by doing these things. God did not do any of this between you and Bill. That is solely you and Bill following the lust of your flesh. Many do these kinds of things and confuse it with God’s work. There is no wisdom, purity or anything praiseworthy in this.
Here is my Story,
I am converted Catholic girl for 10 years. I have great devotion on God. I trust in Him. Because of that, I want my Future family to be very devoted family..God centered Family. That’s why I want a Catholic boy as my partner. I 100% entrusted in God for Finding my Boy friend. Because I know my wishes are according to God’s will. They are not Selfish wishes.
I Never hadn’t a boyfriend until I reached 23.I didn’t try to find one by my effort, because I knew God will Do that for me. At the same time I felt so alone as a single girl, all of my friends have Boyfriends to share there lives.
So I wished if I have a Boyfriend (not only a Bf, my Soul mate. The life time Partner) I would be so happy and i will be satisfied. I asked from God to give me a Good Religious Catholic BF. And I waited Patiently till my prayer work.
Last year Easter Day, I went to the church, after the mass had finished, I asked God to Give me the one, And I trusted He will give me the right one soon.
Same day I went to my lectures. There was a boy sitting in my front raw. I felt bit special about him.(he is not my friend, just batch mate…never have talked either) That’s only that… and I came home.
During the vacation, this boy stared to talk with me on Facebook. Gradually we become close, He is a catholic too! ( in my country Catholics are minority, very rare number of Catholics here) within about 5 months we become lovers. Then we met on our 1st date.
There is a hilarious fact, He said me ” HE felt some special about me On that Easter day.” that is amazing, because it was the day I noticed him, and that was a day I Asked from God to give me the right one soon, because I am feeling so alone.
I thanked God Sooo much For Giving me the right one. He is a good catholic and he cared me a lot. He loved me. I was so satisfied. I Often thanked God for giving me that sweetest gift in my life. I thought with him My dreams will come true..Nice God centered Family.
But as time passes, he stared to say “he is confused about the relationship, He has old memories of his ex gf etc.”
I never got angry with him, as I believed he is the right one, I was so patient with him. I told him to take His time and be ready to this relationship. Things went peacefully.
Again one day he said “he has feeling for his female friend. He thinks he loves her.” That time also i was patient with him and said “take your time and select either her or me. As you cannot love 2 girls at once.”
After few days He said ” Now he doesn’t has feeling of her, He wants a girl kind of mine. And he appreciated me that I am truly loving kind girl. Never wants to leave me. Afraid of losing me, etc and promised to not leave me and not to hurt me.
I was happy.
Next day morning He texted me like saying ” He doesn’t feel anything when he is with me… still he is confused”
I felt really sad and angry. I didn’t want to be patient again. Then I replied him as ” if you feel you want to leave me ,you can leave me, If you love me you will never leave me. But if you want to be with me I give you a chance and I’ll be with you”
He said “it’s better to stop this relationship. And said his sorry” then we broke up.
That was the summed story with details.
According to my believes about God, still I can’t imagine that “he wasn’t the right one for me. I always believed on God, and same as my wishes I met a good partner with all the qualities i wished for.
Still I love him and i want him (if he is the right one). but now i don’t contact with him. But I wish his mind will be changed one day and He will love me again.
Really I gave him a true love. I cared him a lot. I loved him a lot. We had fun together. We were like an ideal couple. We had 5 month relationship as lover.” He knew that and he was satisfied with me.
Please help me. I never want to lose him. If he the one for me. I value him a lot. Please help me!! I hope you will Help me. I am a faithful child of God.
please pray for me, and to change his mind. I could be live happily if he didn’t change his mind
Another matter in my head is, if he is not the one for me(my soul mate) why did God allowed to me to meet that man with all qualities that I expected from a man, with all signs I asked from God. Did God mislead me by doing so?
sometimes I feel like he is already move on and get over me. He is trying new girl in his life.(clues what i see on his online profiles)
I am messed, I want him… as well as I want to get over him also. If he is not the one, I want to get over him… if he is the one I want him back.
please if you can read this and give me some comments. I will be very much thankful for it!! 🙂
This year I will be 28 years old, and my ex boyfriend will be 26. We have almost 4 years relationship. However, in September, he said broke up with me. He said we are not a match for each other, he said he is not love me anymore. When I know that, my heart is totally broke, I can’t accept this. For me, he is one of my family already, and in this 4 years, we support each other to passed by everything bad and good. My brother died, he stayed with me. He feels hopeless, I give him faith. Also, in the beginning he wasn’t christian and not interested to listen what I say about JESUS. Luckily, he believed JESUS. I was so happy at that time, and thank you Jesus. I thought he was the right person that Jesus gave me. So I very much treasure this relationship and never think about breaking up with him.
However, he made this decision. For now, I still can not face to the fact. We still meet each other, because we have a same job. When we see each other, he will talk to me as a friend. During this 5 months, I did try to get back to him and keep praying to GOD, to let him come back to me. However, it doesn’t work.
I do not know what is JESUS’s plan, sometimes when I pray to the Jesus, I said if we are not meant to each other, please let me give up, or today please do not let me have his message or see him. However, after I pray. I will see him or received his message. I am so confuse, I do not know this is come from Jesus or Devil. What should I do, I am still in love with him, I know he is not preferable, I know I can find someone better than him. I know he is not love me now. However, I still love him.
When I share my feeling and thinking to my sister in Jesus. They all said he is not good for me. Jesus will give you a good one. You need to give up…but still…my mind still love him. What can I do from now is keeping praying…I wish Jesus can bring him back.
I did learn something in this relationship, I wish Jesus and him can give me a second change. I wish Jesus can change his mind. I wish.
Suffering from lots of pain i lost my love….but my heart says she will return back…god help me out as soon as possible….without her i am losing myself..
I too lost my boyfriend but my situation is rather complicated. I currently married but it’s a business arrangement. Never would I imagine meeting another man, much less falling in love with another man while I’m in this marriage but I did. It was also a long distance relationship as he lives 8 hours away. We would see each other as much as we could and talked daily but one day something changed and I think it was partly my fault. He is in debt and I told him I I found it difficult to be with him long term if he didn’t fix his financial problem. I feel that after that his feelings shifted. We were together for six months until he disappeared three months ago. The last time we spoke he told me it was fats because he wanted to be with me but I was married and that he didn’t know when we would see each other next and that bothered him. I know that God took him out of my life for a reason because all my love was being poured to my boyfriend and not myself and not God. I feel deep in my spirit that God will bring him back to me when I have grown and shifted my heart to focus on God. I do have to also consider that maybe this man is not for me, even though he was kind, compassionate, loving but he is also selfish and a coward and ten years younger than me. Despite the age difference, I never loved or felt such a deep connection to someone in my life. Is he a blessing or a lesson. I’m trying to stay in faith and pray that he will come back but I already said to God that if he is not for me then show me and help me heal. I pray I will know the answer soon.
I am in exactly the same position. Met this amazing guy who actually brought me closer to God. He has given himself to God completely but he is very selfish and only thinks about his career he wants to accomplish. This would mean that he would be in a different town than I am. I have prayed so many times for us to work and have not seen any results from God. If then indeed you say that you will not know love until you have not given yourself to God. I who have not given all my heart to God loves this guy more unconditionally than he who has given his heart to God. It is a hopeless case and letting go you will never know if ever you will get this guy back but because you love him so much you are willing to let him go even knowing fully that he might meet someone else.
Hi, I dated this guy recently I just broke up with a few days ago. I loved him Im sure his the one I’ve known him since middle school. We sadly departed from ways over a small fight really wasn’t a reason to split. I asked god this morning should I text him to see if he’s okay. And to see if we can get back together. So I asked god for a clear sign I opened my phone and saw that my ex mom messaged me. Telling me she was sad it didn’t work out and she prays for me. Is that my clear sign to talk to him?
I know I made many mistakes in my life and I know I have a lot to learn. Four days ago, I lost the man I loved, my high school sweetheart, Nick, due to silly and childish names. We met freshman year of high school on Valentine’s Day 2012. Because of my short temper and lack of communication, it is my fault on everything. God, make him see that I need him in my life. Make him see that I am dealing with so much pain. I am to the very point where whenever I breathe, my chest hurts and I can feel a very sharp pain on the sides of my skull. I need your help and strength, God. I might not be the most deserving person in the world, but I need your help. I had nightmares where I did not survive and I know that I worked hard for all these years for Nick to be with me. I know he loves me, too and texted all of my apologies. The last four days have been the worst in my life. I’ve also lost many people in my family and Nick was the only one that really helped me get it through with life. He was the only one that did not criticized me and loved me for who I am and for all of my flaws. He’s my best friend, the love of my life. I don’t want the almost three years to be ended now, not now. Please God, watch over both Nick and I. I can’t take any of the tears anymore. I can’t eat and I can’t sleep. Please God, bring him back with me. I promise to be a better person and to work on both of our attitudes. I love him so much, God. I know the both of us can make it through this long distant relationship. It’s been almost four years since I last saw him and I know he still loves and cares about me, too. God, please. I am begging you.
Amen.
Meli
Hi everyone I am writing this testimony to let everyone know How much God is so good and he does keep his Word what every he says he will do. He does keep his Word amen.
Ok this is my testimony about me and my fiancé and we were having some problems and we got into a big fight and he told me it was over between me and him but I didn’t believe him Because it happens a lot and daddy Jesus always put us back togerther again and know what happen is that he told me it’s over and I start to cry and pray To God and then I called back my fiancé again a different day and kept telling me same thing again.
I came off the phone crying so hard and I didnt feel like praying too Because it hurt so bad but God told me his is the one So I cry that day and then open my bible and the lord said you will cry for help. And he will say here am I amen. wow!!!
God is good that’s what I open my bible to that day when was crying so hard its in Isalah. 58:9 then ofter that. I was happy but still heart broking Because of what my fiancé say To me. And so from then I will just keep praying to God for my fiancé and cry and pray and go Chruch and then often I would talk to God and ask him why is like this God if you told me he’s the one but I didnt got answer as yet but I pray and ask God for a word so I can see my fiancé and my two kids again.
So one day I went to a church prayer meeting and this powerful woman of God came To me and ask me how is my fiancé doing and I told her that we are not talking. And she hugged me so tight and told me go and see I am laughing wow God so good so I went and see him that same day I got the Word and God did it. He worked it out for me and my fiancé, everthing went great that day wow because of God. He did it, and kept his Word. Now me my fiance are back togerther again because of daddy Jesus.
Me and my fiancé did not see each other for 4 months and God put us back togerther again wow so happy but I still of keep praying for family but God is so good amen. If you are going true this. Just keep praying and believing, don’t give up because God is too good, soo good he will do what he says he will do, amen. Thanks for reading everyone.
Thank you for sharing, I’ve went through so many forums and blogs … yours is one of the rare case where God did bring your lover back to you . Happy for you but I fear to trust because I might be just the other 99% who’s prayer wasn’t answered ..
It’s been 2 months since the break up. Its still unbearable. I want him back so bad. I love him so much. He blocked me on his phone and facebook. He is not answering my messages. He has been struggling with his grandmother’s health and the custody of his kid. He said he needs to focus on his problems and wants me gone. He has been very kind to me before break up. I admit that I wasn’t very faithful because I seek comfort from a friend to fill in his absence. He lives a thousand miles away and going to him is very expensive. I never loved a man like i loved him. I hope God will bring us back together and bring us both closer to Him. I want to have a strong Christian family with him in the future. I dont know how to ease this pain and longing to have him in my arms again. I can’t find comfort and peace. I can’t stop thinking about him. Please help and pray for me…
Hi everyone. It’s funny how I have felt so alone for about a year now. When I say alone I mean I feel like nobody understands what I’m going through exactly. When I tell my story, most of the time I feel foolish and upset that I have prayed for so long for something that can never happen or is “unrealistic.” But reading all of your posts has given me hope, that we all have faith for the same thing. We all want our families and we will fight for them. But we also know that the only way to win is with the most high, Jesus Christ. would like to hear some praise reports of what the Lord has done in your relationships! For me, it began about three years ago. A man came into a restaraunt I was serving at and he ended up getting my number. from there the relationship progressed. He is 9 years older than me. I wasn’t walking with the Lord and neither was he, he still doesn’t know Jesus but i pray that he will. I was raised Christian but was on the run trying to live with the world. I got kicked out of the house because my parents did not approve of me seeing him. This man and I dated only 5 months, but I can remember how hard it was when he called it off. I was heartbroken. And this wasn’t the first breakup id been through either, this time was different. I was brought to my knees. I couldn’t do It anymore because I realized there is no life in living like the world, only death. Jesus showed me and He restored me to joy and a full heart because of His love. I am happy to say that He did a miracle in me! and my mom had been praying for me for years and years that I would turn back to Jesus. I still had this love for the man who I had been with though. We saw eachother on and off and still do actually. I felt like the Lord tugging on my heart to draw closer to Him (Jesus) to cry out to Him. Not to the emptiness of the world. To make Him my first love. He needs to be my rock, without Him how could a relationship truly stand and be full of love the way He first intended? Drawing closer Jesus is really all I ever need. His peace and His intimacy is so great and I get so joyful when I imagine Him wrapping me in His arms for eternity. I get attacked very often and loose my hope that the Lord really loves me but it is always restored. I also lose hope that there is a man who I can walk with and have a family with. (Specifically him) It’s been about a year now that I have been directly praying for him to be saved. A lady I work with who is a Christian lives next door to him and they weren’t neighbors before. So I know there are other people in his life to share Jesus with him. I thank Jesus for that! I will remain in prayer and seeking the Lord. I will also be praying for all of you because you are my sisters! Don’t give up! I was asking the Lord tonight if I should give up in hoping for this man who I love, and I came across this website. Thank you all for sharing!
This is such a blessing, I stumbled upon this website when my ex boyfriend first split with me at the beginning of march but came back here today by accident as I’m trying to seek Gods will and my heart just wants to be sure whether God will restore and renew our relationship or not. The comments are amazing, God is so good. So encouraging to read them and feel the love, thank you all for sharing your stories, praying I’ll be able to post back here soon with a miracle.
God spoke to me in February whilst I was still with my ex, I was walking home and He told me to turn off my music and pray, so I did. When I closed my prayer He softly spoke to me telling me to be still, know He is God and He is working on it. I hold those words so close and cling on them because I love and care about my ex so much, I want to marry him and just support him for all of my life and really believe God will do miracles in our life. He isn’t a Christian and I have been praying for his and his families salvation since we first got together. God ended the relationship in the beginning of March and I’m praying fervently, trusting and hoping God will transform my ex and his family, restore our relationship, breathe life into it and renew us so that we may be stronger than ever, we may honour God and serve Him with our testimony.
Psalm 37:4 – Delight in the Lord and He will give you the desires of your heart.
Lots of love to you girls, I know how hard this struggle is, I’m still going through it and every day is battle! If any of you want someone to talk to then feel free to email me: zahavagrace at live dot com
Happy to chat about this, offer advice, even just listen because heartbreak is so difficult and sometimes holding on to Hope is too.
[side note – my anti spam word was “have faith” so girls.. have faith that God can do all things”]
Xxx
My name is Priya. My boyfriend name Prince. We love each other for 6 years and we said to our parents and bring near engagement but suddenly his mom not accepted and separated us. And kept black magic for him to forget me. now he is not at all talking to me. Please help my boy friend and remove the black magic from him and make him marry me. Please help me lord. Make us married and live together ever with true love.I trust you jehovah pa. please help me. In Jesus name Amen
On so heart broken. My last relationship ended 3 months ago, not too long before my birthday. We dated for just over a year. However, we dated before that, 3 years ago. He wanted to be part of my life again, and I needed to know that he was serious about a relationship. He pursued me in an amazing way, very gently. We started dating on Ash Wednesday, and he even suggested that we not kiss for lent! I really needed to hear that from him, and it seemed like God was really working in each of our lives to being is closer together.
I don’t know what happened. I know that we should have been more open with each other, and I think I took it for granted that we’d get married. But he was a little cryptic when he broke up with me.
I’m still so hurt, yet I still miss him so much.
Dear God,
Please get my Tsuna back & let her be as loving, caring & affectionate as she used to be for 10 years.
I want lead a beautiful, romantic, successful marital life with lots of comforts & luxury I wish to provide her.
Hi, I just broke up last week with my boyfriend. I miss him a lot. I am in pain right now. Please god help me and send him back. I need him. Please god send him back.
IDK how to feel…. my fiancé and I were together for
12 plus years, lived together for 11 years and was engaged for 3 years. He packed up all of his things and left 8 months ago. We have constantly stayed in communication, hung out together, had dinner dates and went on trips together since he moved out. He had been telling me not to give up hope on is and pray for us this whole time. However the communication started to lessen about 1 month ago. After crying my heart out to him & pleading to be back together he told me that he had moved on and is dating. I’m crushed! My world has been flipped upside down. There is nothing more in this world that I want than to be with him. During this time I have developed a stronger relationship with God and his word. His words are the only thing that comforts me. There is not a day that goes by that I don’t cry. I cry when I wake up, cry during the day and cry myself to sleep. I pray and ask God everyday for reconciliation between my ex fiancé and I. He is my heart, the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. I made huge mistakes in our relationship. I’m staying prayerful and have faith that God will bring us back together!
Please pray for him & I! Thank you, God bless you all!
After a 3 month breakup with my girlfriend, we are now back together. All i can tell guys is that keep on praying for reconciliation. Do not give up on prayer. Am a witness that God answers prayer.
Hi Matthew,
Wow! Please tell us your testimony – how long were you and your girlfriend together, who broke it off, and how you got back together other than prayer?
Praise God.
Hi Everyone,
I would like to leave a message of encouragement for every brokenhearted individual. Trust in God. Currently my boyfriend of 3 1/2 years have broken up with me because we argued and fight alot for every and anything but I know God will bring him back home. We lived together and he moved out; the police even got involved as well. It was a really messy break up but I KNOW GOD WILL BRING US BACK TOGETHER. Let us not doubt the power of the Almighty God. He have done it once and he will do it again. As i write to you it has 5 days since our break up. Four days out of these days I have failed my God with doubts, by calling down MY BOYFRIEND phone, texting him, begging him, you name it, I have done it because it usually worked in the past. However, this has been the longest time we have gone without communication in all the breakups we have had and I know when he comes back its for good. Meaning we are going to be married and start a family becaue this is what I was praying for and God allowed this separation for a cause. Yes I am hurt and yes I am feeling as though I could have done so much stuff which would not have resulted in this break up but it has already happened and all I can do is have faith in God AND PRAY FOR HIM AND MYSELF. I had forgotten to pray for him, I allowed the frustrations of this world and my relationship to suppress my prayer and worship life. Yes I went to church and never missed a service but I had forgotten about my first love. And why I speak with so much authority because I remember what had happened before. Let me share:
Before he got baptized I went through a similar battle in which I fast and pray for a week and one the end of my fast something major happened in his life that he had no other choice but to turn unto God. He had done me so much wrong, hid stuff from me and it all got revealed when I had finish my devotion UNTO GOD. So this is why i can say MY GOD IS THE SAME GOD YESTERDAY, TODAY AND FOREVER MORE. And if he did it for me once he can do it again and even greater. Give God a chance for his name to be glorified this is why trials and testing comes. So GOD CAN BE GLORIFIED NOT ONLY WITH YOU BUT ALSO TO SAVE A SOUL OR RESTORE SOMEONE. I may speak as though I have everything under control but I am truly committing myself to praying and trusting God. Don’t doubt it for one instant that restoration would not come and if it doesn’t it’s because you did not have enough and also was not FAITHFUL AND RIGHTEOUS to GOD. Why I say this because the scripture said no good thing would he withhold from those who serve him and if you ask God for bread he would not give you a stone. And for those who need help or just need someone to talk to I am here. Maybe the whole purpose of me going through this is to uplift another in FAITH and truly allow God to change MY FUTURE HUSBAND into the man of God he wants him to be.
I love my boyfriend there is no doubt about that. And today is a tough day for me because it’s his birthday and we took vacation to spend this time together since his work is very demanding. Yes I am hurt but I am not gonna let it get me down. My boyfriend can do what he wants in the name of Jesus he is coming right back home and he will be a true man of God. I will never underestimate the power of pray. I am NOT GIVING UP AT ALL THE devil IS A LIAR!!!!. Believe in God and know he would not turn a blind eye to your sacrifice but you have to truly trust in him. And I would advise any true worshiper of God to watch War Room it is a powerful movie. I hope I have given some sought of hope to someone out there and when my boyfriend comes back, I will update you all. And notice I said WHEN AND NOT IF. And it’s not gonna take a month because I am claiming it in the name of Jesus. Trust in the Lord and the power of his might, joy cometh in the morning. Hallelujah.
Hi everyone as stated I was not waiting a month for my relationship to workout and God heard my request with me claiming it and it has begun. Awesome is our God. My sister spoke with my boyfriend without me knowing and he said we are not over but he needs sometime and is hurt from things that was said and done. I thank God so much because he is seeing my sacrifices and have not turned a deaf ear to my prayer. FAITH, PRAY AND FASTING does wonders. We are not living back together and he is yet to contact me but I am so over joyed that he even answered his phone and spoke with my sister for over an hour about our relationship and he told her he doesn’t want us to part ways. God allowed this break-up to draw me closer unto him, make me be a true woman of God before he gives me the desire of my heart to have my boyfriend and me become one flesh (marriage). I will keep updating everyone on the progress even when he gets back home because the work has only now begun. The devil hates happiness but my God has me protected and no doubt, fear, anxiety, sadness or depress will take over my sou and deter me from serving my one and true living God. I have to keep praying and meditating upon his word day and night in Jesus name. Amen.
Most Gracious and Eternal Heavenly Father, I pray that you will repair the friendship that I have with my guy friend Jovani and that you will help us to reach out to one another and reconnect and talk to each other soon. I pray that you will change his heart and allow him to reach out to me and be kind to me again. Please do this in your own time and in your own way. I need your help, Father. I won’t give up on you or my friend. We have not spoken in four almost five months, since 1 July 2017, when he stopped talking to me for no reason at all. I miss him and I look forward to seeing/talking to him again one day. I claim my renewed friendship in Jesus Christ blessed name, Amen.
Hi everyone, wow it’s so great to hear everyone’s testimony. Here is mine. I was born in a Christian home. I faithfully went to church…growing up singing and in 2015-2016 I really got so close and deep with God like I understood him as my father.
I dated a guy in June 2016 and it only lasted 3 months it hurt me but I knew he wasn’t for me. So I prayed to God and said the next guy you send into my life will be the one. And so December 2016 I met the guy who I believe is the one for me. It’s funny because we went to the same church together for 4 years but never spoke to each other. We would only see look at each other from across the church and that was it. I eventually moved to another church and December 2016 he appeared at my new church for a visit.
Anyways we connected. I fell in love with him and he with me as well. We dated for 8 months. But during the last 6 months he wasn’t calling as usual or texting he said he as really busy. But when we actually went out on dates he was different I could see it in his eyes. His family and sister loved me so much. He would talk about marriage with me and how I was the best girl he has ever dated. He was amazed by me. He loved my parents as well.
But then I find out he was struggling with depression and anxiety. He would sometimes stay locked in his room all day because the weather depressed him and he didn’t want to talk to anyone including his family. I would cry day and night ask God why he sent me such a great guy in whom I felt a deep connection with and him with me. Just a month ago we decided to call it off. I blocked him on Facebook and I found out today he deactivated his Facebook account.
I miss him so much. I still cry till this day but lately God has been giving me so much confidence and comfort. And I realized God is doing something with him. And who knows maybe God will send him back to me but this time different free of depression and anxiety. I pray twice a day for him that the lord can bring him back to me.
Hi team. I hope this message finds you very well. Actually i am facing a very critical complicated unsolvable and crucial issue since November 2016. It is ongoing till now. It seems it has no end at all. Please pray with all your heart so our Lord will solve this problem asap. It is in regards to a relationship.
Once done, let me know please. Regards R G Sydney
Hi Sydney,
Will uphold you in prayers but if you are comfortable you can share the prayer requests over email.. manbhu121 at gmail dot com
Blessings
M