Right, the way I am living is wrong at the moment, but I know I am going to get back to God!
Feel free to ask me why I am not living right, but while I have been ‘living in the world’ so to speak – I have met this girl, I’m 19, she is 17, and I have been with girls before, but I really get on with this girl – never met anyone like her, we can talk for hours, and I’ve told her a bit about God, even though I am not living a godly life at the moment.
I want her to come to know God, and for me to get back to God, because I don’t want her to go to hell! – Even though this isn’t a godly relationship, it kind of feels right. I do bmxing and I have been wanting for ages for my local skatepark to be fixed it because it is the lowest budget skatepark in the world! And now this really good one is getting built right next to my girlfriend’s house!
So can you pray that God will speak to my heart and her heart and bring us both back to God?!
My family (small family) knows God, but her family are really posh and rich, and drink and smoke and live the worldly lifestyle, so if it wasn’t for me meeting her, she would not have this opportunity to get to know God.
Her name is Decima (pronounced like decimal but without the ‘L’ on the end) and my name is Adam.
Someone please email me, to keep in contact with me, and to pray through this situation!
a.tasker at hotmail dot co dot uk
Or you could add me on Facebook as well – search Adam Tasker Leeds – I am wearing a blue shirt and a red tie in the picture.
Thank you very much for reading this.
With sincerity,
Adam Tasker
does this get any responses?
Our God is great. Keep praying for the girl to receive Jesus. There are many people who came to Jesus due to the constant prayer’s of others.
For now,if you go to people’s advices. Mostly they will say you are not be unequally yoked. What I say is pray and let God decide.
After all we are all God’s creation. There’s nothing that is impossible for the Lord. First,dear you need to come close to Jesus. Pray to him everyday and be in his thoughts for longer time. I am sure he is near to all who call on him truth.
Will remembr both of you in my prayers too.
God bless You.
Minnie
and make sure you tell her about jesus little by little.
Jesus has to open the heart or else whatever we say the other may not understand.
You need to pray to God,get advice from him and proceed. I am sure she will come to know Jesus.
Be blessed.
I agree with minz. All you can do is pray and if God wills it, then everything will work out for you. But you must put God at the center of your life. As hard as it may be, God needs to come first in your life..He needs to come before this girl. Everything happens for a reason, just keep that in mind. Sometimes things don’t work out the way we want them to, but even though we might not be able to see the reason in that particular moment in time, remember that God always has your best interests at heart.
I believe that God puts people in others lives to bring them to Him and save their soul. My grandma had a vision that my grandpa was close to falling in to hell, and from that vision she learnt that she was meant to marry my grandpa so that she could save his soul.
Pray! Pray! Pray! God Bless, from Aus.
Hi Adam,
I know you are confused..all the above comments are solid. Make your relationship with God first and He will work out the rest. I know how it is when you are in love but God knows what is right for you. If you truly want to serve the Lord and surrender your life to Him your friend must be heading in the same direction. The bible says we should not be yoked with unbelievers…it is one of the hardest things to be married to an unbeliever..I see it all the time…people at church for years and I didnt know they were married because their spouse doesnt come to church. However there is nothing too hard for God you might be the person to bring her to Christ, but you have to know Him for yourself first. Go to church, attend Bible Study and Prayer, find a Godly person maybe a deacon or a leader in the church someone you can trust, have them guide you and pray with you. I will be praying for you too. God Bless
Hi Adam
You need to sort yourself out first if you want to help this girl. First of all, have you repented or are you still “not living right”? Because if you are not practising what you preach then I hesitate to say it won’t work because God does use people who are available even if they are not right with him, but you will be less effective and people can see through double standards. She may even just go through the motions to please you if she sees your own commitment is not full, and will have less respect for you if she does find Jesus for herself. So you must stop being involved with her as other than a friend if you want to reach her for Christ, and get focussed on that, not a relationship with her. Get your relationship with God first too.
I am sorry if this is harsh. You see Iamredeemed is right. I was a Christian but I backslid to live with and then marry my husband who did not believe. I spent years out of fellowship and finally came back when the Lord rescued me from a dangerous situation just in time. But I have spent years going to church without my husband and it is hard particularly at Easter and Christmas. Also my children were much older and out of three only one really knows the Lord so far. Being yoked to unbelievers is painful and hard work. If you are a believer then this girl is out of bounds to you unless she becomes a believer and even then “going with” her is out of bounds; if you are not fully committed to God yourself, which appears to be the case, then that is your first priority. Ask Jesus to forgive you for not living right before Him, acknowledge and thank Him for dying for you, and ask Him to come into your life and take control of the situation.