It’s been 9 months since I broke up with an x of mine and for some reason there hasn’t been a day where I haven’t thought about her. We only went out for 1 month we were perfect at first but in the end some stupid stuff happened, and we ended up just separating. Honestly, I was really heartbroken like never before when we separated but because of the heart break, my relationship with God grew a lot because I looked for him even more for comfort.
So God actually used that relationship and the heart break to draw me closer to him. We really haven’t talked at all in those nine months, I have been focusing really more on my relationship with God and what not. But for some reason… I have not been able to forget this chick at all. You know, you would think that I would forget this chick in 9 months of no communication at all and it being just a relationship that lasted 1 month but for some reason she has been on my mind constantly.
I pray for her a lot because she is always on my mind you know. I worry about her honestly sometimes too. I recently had two really serious dreams of her back-to-back. Both the same concept but different backgrounds and settings. They both portrayed her being lonely. I’m not gonna describe them because they are really long but, in both dreams, she looked really lonely.
I really don’t know why I can’t forget her…sometimes I ask God to help me forget her but it’s always the same. Is this weird? Is this me or is God trying to do something and I’m just not paying attention? Trusting God.
Pray to God. Ask him to guide you.
Break-ups happen in certain relationships to draw us more close to Jesus,and just wait because God may unite you both in a manner more stronger than ever. The joy of having a spiritual link with your partner is invaluable.
God bless you dear. And may he guide you.
Minnie
Sometimes we go through somethings to strengthen us and to make us come to terms with the truth in our lives. You haven’t talked to her in a long time but based on what you have been feeling, if you have a peace inside about it, you should talk to her. Especially if she didn’t influence your life negatively. Sometimes God is waiting for us to move as He leads but instead we think we are waiting on Him to act. Like Minz already said to have a bond with your partner is priceless, not everyone gets to have that.
Just continue praying and He will lead you.
God Bless
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will make your paths straight” (Proverbs 3:5-6)
Its been nearly 6 years since me and my ex have spoken and i still think about him every day and we were only together for a few weeks. There’s been many times where i’ve asked the Lord to help me forget about him.I’ve had dreams about him that really got to me. I can relate with alot of what you said. So much has happened over the years but i still think about him alot. It has definitely been a battle but the Lord has taught me so much about Himself throughout all of this. It has definitely drawn me closer to the Lord.I’m at the point now where i just pray for him and keep giving him back to the Lord (which is a daily continuous thing) before i couldn’t even do that because i just wanted him out of my thought. Your question Should you talk to her again? Our God is a God of relationships that’s why He sent His Son Jesus He doesn’t want division. It says in James 1:5 “if anyone lacks wisdom he should ask God who gives generously without finding fault and it will be given to him”
In Psalm 32:8 the Lord Himself says “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go, I will counsel you and watch over you”
Yes continue to pray and keep in His word and He will lead you if you let Him.
God bless you heaps!!!