Hi! I just want to share my story since I’m now 6 months pregnant. So, I met a guy way back December 2020 which is the father of the baby I’m carrying in my womb right now. I really do love him so much that I gave everything.
We broke up last month June 26,2025, and the reason of our breakup is that he fell out of love for me. I admit that I’m not a perfect partner and we really do have a fight ever since but everything can be fix right away.
June 27,2025, I saw him with another girl and that was the day that I ask God, why does this kind of situation is happening to me right now. I beg for him to not leave me and to choose us but he didn’t. After a week I found out that the girl and him did not work together.
Today just found out again that he has another girl they’re so happy right now. The lesson I really thought is that to surrender the person to the lord. If that person didn’t choose you in the first place and chose to left, then that was not the right person for you.
For now, I’ll let him go and surrender all my worries to God and pray for my healing. It’s really hard to lose someone you’ve loved for almost 5 years and planned all your future to them, but I think God has a better plan for us with my baby soon.
To the man who broke me, I just hope for your happiness, and I wish I’ll be happy soon. The pain that I’m feeling right now could never compare to the joy that is coming and when the time is right and everything is in peace, I hope you’ll not reach out. Goodnight, everyone!
Dear Roquiza,
The scripture “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” found in Psalm 34:18 is a consolation to you.
This verse assures that God is near to those who are hurting and offers comfort and salvation to those who are experiencing emotional distress or despair.
This verse highlights God’s compassion and willingness to be present with those who are suffering. It suggests that even in moments of deep pain and brokenness, God is actively involved and offers a path to healing and restoration. The promise of being close to the brokenhearted is a source of hope and encouragement for those who are struggling with difficult.
He is right there with you and will make everything beautiful in his time.
He will also give you wisdom to walk in righteousness next time. I m not judging you but sin always leads to misery and disappointments.
It’s well with you.
In addition to what Mr Godwin commented…
Dear Roquiza, who am I to judge. But from your testimony, it shows you two have not married. Sleeping together is a sin. The first step to your healing is true repentance for engaging in premarital sex. Then surrendering to his will for your life follows. The psalmist said he has not any good thing but God. God is the most good thing we will ever have above husband and comfort in this life. I will do well to pray for you. Don’t give up, God has not and will never give up on you. You will deliver safely and God will bring your husband in due time.
Shalom
Kudos to your forgiving and wonderful heart.
I am praying for wher brought a similar situation. My daughter is 18 fatherless. But guess what? That don’t have to be your story. God knows what’s best. Keep praying. For God will and it will work out. It’s been 18 years and my daughter is an angel from God though I was going to abort her. So, God’s plan is better keeping praying believing. And he worked it out already. God’s peace is on you right now, just believe it and receive it. Like I did 18 yrs ago from depression of a teenage mom in hs. Now I am happy, married, author, evangelist, and my daughter is in college, a true woman of God bringing many to Jesus like your story will soon. Don’t worry. He sees you. I know because I lived your truth.
cleay that m***** did not deserve you
God longs to give you hope and peace.
people like him who make poor choices will end in their own misery, they will be directionless eventually. lost and forgotten.
But you will learn through your sorrows and grow stronger.
Jesus loves you