Hello there,
I am writing to ask for prayer. I recently was broken up with by the man I spent two years of my life with and planned to marry. this breakup came suddenly and unexpectedly, and I feel completely broken.
I know that the way I was in this relationship was unhealthy. I made this man my everything, my life. without him I sometimes feel as if I will die. I know that I replaced God with this man in so many ways.
Right now, I am struggling to feel God’s presence and to let go of this man because I gave up everything for him, I feel absolutely alone. I feel I have nobody to talk to or pray with or start living my life with.
It’s so hard and I would just appreciate prayers for peace, healing, the ability to let go, and some friendships.
Thank you.
hi.talk to god .he hears you.read the word.you dont need no man but god.he is your everything.he will not leave or forsake you.
Hey kristennn, I hope this helps. I have been on/off with my walks of faith for quite some time. On the way home from work, I turned on the radio expecting my usual country music to be on, but instead, it was a pastor. He said to start out slowly, and take baby steps. Just read the Bible for at least 15 minutes a day, and gradually work your way up to 20 minutes, 25, 30, etc. It really works! I find that on days that I don’t read, or get caught up in something else, that day is so much harder then if I had read His Word. Keep in mind to just take baby steps. Think of it this way: if you give a newborn baby steak and baked potato, it will choke, right? But, if you start the baby off with milk, it will get the nourishment it needs to grow, and eventually, the baby will be able to eat that steak and baked potato. I hope this makes sense to you and helps you on this not-so-easy journey through a dark and tempting world. Michelle, I will put you in my prayers right now, and tonight. I will also ask my wife to pray for you. I love you in Jesus’s name, and hope all will be opened to you for the greater being of God in Heaven.
Hi,
I was in the same place you are in. The only thing that helped was spending time in God’s presence and asking Him to deliver me from all ties with the guy. May you be released in Jesus name. The name above every name. The tie between you and that person can be broken and you can be set free right now. Please get into a good fellowship with people who completely depend on the Bible. Also read the Word as it helps wash away all sin and helps us conquer all things. Praying for you sister!
God bless
2 Corinthians 10:4 For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty in God for pulling down strongholds, 5 casting down arguments (or imaginations) and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, bringing every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ, 6 and being ready to punish all disobedience when your obedience is fulfilled.
http://www.openbible.info/topics/healing_a_broken_heart
Hey i 2 lost the one person i gave anything and everything 4 but god healed me when i turned 2 him and when i thought i could never stand on my 2 feet again, now i do and in my weakness god gave me strength so now i try 2 help people seeking help and god works through me. the way i c it is everything is just a lesson from god 2 over come, so we can help people with the same experiances. glad i got 2 read ur testimony and ill leave mine if i can figure this web sight out, know u will be in my prayers. oh ya almost forgot i wear this neckless and it says be strong and courageous. Do not be discouraged The lord is with u whereever u r Joshua1:9 this helps me alot cause it constantly reminds me that god is here 2 hlp me.
My daughter had a very similar experience a short time ago. She felt depressed, anxious and confused. Then God brought a wonderful Christian counselor into her life, who said that as humans, we sometimes feel validated by people, jobs, other avenues of security. Instead of seeing herself as a beloved child of God, her identity had been wrapped up in other things, like the boy she was dating, for example. As she began to see the truth in this statement and began to study God’s word, the REAL TRUTH, her life began to change. Her studies centered around, “How do I know God loves me?” and God showed her that she could say, “I am because I AM says so.” Today she sees herself as a daughter of the King, living a full and peaceful life, relying on God for daily strength and guidance. Hard times come and go, as they do for us all, but she trusts in God, searches the Word, and hangs on to His promises. She just started dating a sweet Christian boy, but she knows who she is and that she’ll be strong and steady, regardless of the outcome of their relationship. And this thought gives her such peace and joy for every day living! She can actually thank God for the turmoil she went through because He was faithful and set her on a much better path. She says that she’s been blessed with an opportunity to glorify God with her life.
There are so many scriptures that tell us of God’s love, but here are some favorites.
Psalm 139:13-16
“For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth, your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.”
Jeremiah 29:11-12
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.”
May God bless you today and give you peace.
hi kristennn.. i am going through the same kind of delemma tht u r going through right now..just some small diffrences like i was in love with this gal nd something happend nd v both cheated each other. now it all over.its been an year now. but still the pain is not fading.but yes reading bible does work. i m new in christ compared to others here but i m hanging on to him and always pray to Lord Christ tht please dont ever let me go even if i want to.. as a beliving friend its my advice tht HANG ON, PRAY FOR HIM EVERYTIME U FEEL HURT, ND DONT EVER BE HARD HEARTED. we all belivers are togeather with u. remember IN OUR WEAKNESS HE IS MADE STRONG… thank Jesus, confess ur sins nd share everything to our Heavenly Father. i’ll pray for you today,my prayers for my friends never go unanswred. u just pray nd belive. May his will be done. Praise God in Jesus name.
listen to the song called by your side.
Start saying OUTLOUD the Word of God.
I had a miracle of deliverance with Jesus when I started praying Scripture OUTLOUD to God. I got this book and started chanting the Scripture prayers: Praying God’s Word by Beth Moore. It changed my life. God changed my life. God showed up in my prayer life supernaturally. Please pray Scripture outloud to God even if you dont feel anything yet. Keep doing it. He will deliver you. He is faithful.
god please open the window and pour out your blessing to this young lady help her to know that you are all that she needs and that man was not who you sent for her help her to know that if she puts her trust in you you will never leave her man always fails but you are the truth and the real living god. for it is sin that brought her to way and that if she puts you first all things are possible. it may be hard but trust god he wasnt met for her and that you know what she stands in need of . amen
I’m praying for you too, Kristenn.
May God be very near to you and help you through your pain. Remember, you are not alone. You have Jesus and friends in Him who love and care about you.
I have been where you’re at before. The only thing that can bring you out of the feelings of hurt and loneliness is God! Sometimes God has to remove people out of our lives that may be keeping us from having a stronger connection to him. We may not see at the time but overtime we will. You’re gonna grow so much. Pray that God will show you what your true purpose is. Read your bible more, do personal devotions, fellowship with Christian people. think: were your spiritual priorities right? Change your approach to relationships with the opposite sex to just enjoying friendships. In the time be patient, wait on the Lord and use your energy as a single person to serve God. Remember as God molds you into what He designed you to be, there will be changes and not all of them will be easy to deal with it or adjust to. But it always works out for your good.
Be Encouraged
With Godly love,
Bahamian Believer
If you Believe and your faith is strong God will answer
your peayer.
Now faith is the substance of things hoped for the
evidence of things not seen.
If have mustard seed faith God willanswer your
prayer. But then God answers all prayers.In due time
the necessity of your need depends how fast it will go
into action. May God Bless You!
Oh dear! So many lonely people looking for answers, and waiting for death!
Dear Sister, you see life the way we see is different from it’s realities, i have been in your shoes before and nothing strikes me, not even the word. I know very well what I was doing was so bad yet I proceeded but however God will never pay you for your wrongs if you accept it and stand for it, you were almost replacing this man with God which is done no where because God is incomparable. He has only taking you from deserter because you have worshipped this man for only two years, look how it feels and imagine getting married to a man you will worship for the rest of your life, I might have died earlier before your time through stress and struggling. Look at this from a positive perspective and you will see the light. Tell God even though you do not understand his way, you trust him the most and give it all to him. Kindly read online about SOUL TIE, it is one of your problems and pray to God whiles Serling support from men of God to break it and you will be free forever. You may reach out to me through Gibsong09@aol.com.
I pray God restore your heart in abundance and give you strength to overcome this situation and become a better person for a better man, Amen. God bless you