Hi
I’m an Indian, Hindu brahmin gal. I got married some 5 years ago. My husband & I are not in good terms. He comes home late does not eat food at home.
He has a female friend who is very close. Though she is married and has a child still she does not want to leave my husband and my husband wants to leave me for her. Though am a Hindu by religion but I am a strong believer of Lord Jesus.
I always loved my husband with true heart, and I still do. I dunno if the lord wanted me to get married to him. After 5 years also we are still struggling to come close to each other. I really want to start a family, but husband is still not sure whether we should continue this marriage or not. That woman really wants that we should break off. I have not lost my faith completely. I still feel that I can save my marriage and bring my husband out of her clutches.
please advise me and write a few words of encouragement so that I can continue this fight and see a happy married life one day with my kids.
Be encouraged. With God, all things are possible. All you need is a little bit of FAITH. Talk to Jesus. Tell Him how you feel. Give your life to Him. He is the One who can turn things around. Not the god of Hindu. God can do ANYTHING. Keep praying to Jesus. Keep believing. No matter what you hear. No matter what you see. Jesus is bigger than what the facts are. Read Matthew 19 verse 26, Mark 11 verse 22-26, Genesis 18 verse 14, Mark 9 verse 29. All things are possible with Jesus. God bless you.
My friend,
I am also in the same position. I am also Hindu but I beleived in Jesus. I am also married for 4 yrs.
I am just praying everyday and I know one day Jesus will give me back 7 times.
Check this to get encouraged…
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I beleive in him tottaly……
Have u given to ur life to Jesus? if u haven, now it’s the right time. give ur life to Jesus, turn to him completely. Faith is believing in what is unseen, u give him ur life, He will take care of the rest. 🙂 God will surely make a way, but in anything we do, let’s honor Him and give our life to Him first.
George says,
Jesus never asked anyone the religion or cast.He came to this world to give salvation to all and save the world.He gave his life on the cross to save us and resurrected on the third day.Whoever accept him as the personal Lord and savior will be saved and will become a new creation. When Jesus was in this world he healed somany sick people,delivered demon possessed people, and so many other miracles. The Jesus is living today and there is no end for his kingdom.I had been praying for a couple who were separated Since 12 years around a couple of months back lord answered my prayers and they are together now. Do not lose your faith and don’t ask any help to anyone but Jesus is your true fried he will not leave you alone or forsake you. Do not wait submit yourself to Jesus now and see his miracles.
Hi,
I’m not a very big person to advice you but I just though that I can share with you what I feel after reading your message. Just pray for your husband’s female friend that she may realize what she is doing & also pray for people who are facing the same problem as you. And always remember – there is always a reason behind everything that happens in life and one day when you look back the situation will make sense.
You definitely can save you marriage with the help of the Lord, and don’t worry you will have a wonderful family with beautiful kids……….will keep you in my prayers….do keep in touch…..my mail id is chris_e2e@yahoo.com
Remember, those who seek the Lord will find help!!!
Keep the faith going!!!
Thanks be to God,its pleasing that u believe in the lord Jesus Christ but take another step an confess the as your personal Savior.there is one thing that you need to know dear, this God,our God that we serve is a jealousy God he does not want us to serve Him and other gods or share His love with other Gods (its in Deuteronomy)as you also do not want to share your husband with another woman! so please confess Jesus as your savior and seek Him first and other will follow you(Matthew 6:33)God’s intention for you is to make you happy or have life and have it in full(John10:10)Just depend on Him, he will never late you down and surely your marriage will work out.
you know what? everything happens for the purpose of good for those who love the lord, may be this situation you are in, is the point of connection that God wants to use to draw you close to HIM,may be to minister to your husband!! idont know! seek HIM more.Be blessed keep on praying and have faith in God.
Hi…
I probably am the most NOT qualified person to write anything in response to your request, But i see there are people out there with wonderful advices already.
I just wanted to let you know, i just said a prayer for you and that God’s going to get you through. Maybe in a way you dont really expect but surely, He will deilver you. Keep the faith and i will continue to pray for you.!
God Bless
God will not put you to shame when you trust in Him! I prayed for you too. And please let us know your current situation so we can continue to pray for you. God will fight your battles, there are no other gods beside Him. I claim your soul for the kingdom of God, in the name of Jesus.
God be your all in all, sister.
Pam
Sister, in all things give thanks for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you. James says count it all joy when fall into diverse temptations. I know that this may sound silly to you right now but just, ” laugh it off”. Have joy my sister. Don’t be bogged down with your husband or any other problem in your life. Jesus said I came that you might have life and have it to the full. John 10:10. Jesus said that I came that you might have joy and have it to the fullest. God made you to be free. Whom the sun has set free is free indeed. Paul tells the Phillipians to rejoice. He says finally rejoice. I would get involved with anyone who dosen’t want to get involved with me. I know that your married and it takes time because you’ve invested so much of yourself into this person. But I dare you sister to invest that much of yourself into Jesus. We all go through situations where we just don’t know why this is happening but the bible says, ” All things work together for the good to them that love God and are called according to his purpose” Romans 8:28. Just laugh about the situation. Laugh in your home. Laugh in your job. Smile. God made you to have joy. Be happy, and I pray that the Holy Ghost protects you from any demon that would try to rise up against you and take away your joy from this day forward in Jesus name. Thank God amen.
Hi there
Dont worry about your husband god will take care of him he will make sure he shows the right path to him even being hindu trusing lord jesus is good. i will pray for you and keep you in my prayers dont worry at all gods plans are great u trust and seek him he will take care even if it takes time it will happen in the name of jesus amen.
Sister,
Dont worry When God is with us who can be against us.
In Mathews chapt 19:5-6 say that what God has put togther that no man can divide.God can do everything
.God will bless with a baby and your husband will surely
come back to you.
Do worry i am also having the almost the same
problem and i do belong to a hindu family.Trust
in Our Lord and be happy because he will finish
all the works that he has started for you.I will have you in my prayers
Be of Good Cheer!!!!!!
Hi! my name is Fernando,well, I think is not easy to advice, however I would like to tell you something that will help you a lot. why dont you start praying for her,not only for your husband and for you but for her as well. the Bible says that we must bless our enemies.
I’m sure that this will make you feel better.
another thing. that is even more difficult is forgiving.
hard thing,right?. maybe right now is hard to think about forgiving. but God will give you the strength to do it if you ask him to do it. Blessings fernando.
this is my email if you want to get in contact with me
fernandoloyola2202@yahoo.com
Hi to everyone! I need help to sort all these out. I met a man on the internet whom I fell in love with. He said he fell in love with me, too. He is an architect, went to London for a project went to Nigeria to pick up his daughter cuz the African-american mom died. He got stuck in Nigeria, got mobbed took all his money around $8,000 he said. Then, he asked me for money to pay his daughter’s documents and ticket which I did with a promise that he and the daughter will come to where I am right now. But a another tragedy happened, they got into an accident on their way to the airport and the daughter was hospitalized for two weeks. Now, he asked me $500 to reschedule their flight on July 13, 2009. He promised to pay everything when he arrives. I believe him but I have doubts yet I still give him money. When I prayed for God’s guidance, I believe that He answered me cuz I receive a message on our church preaching as to a friend to someone in need and I did. I am not sure if God was the one talking to me. I am confused. I told myself that if anything happens again this Tuesday, the day they are supposed to arrive that I will stop communicating to this guy anymore. Please give me wisdom and help me sort this out. I also need a lot of prayers. I have never told anyone because I know that they will judge and tell me that I am stupid that I shouldn’t trust. But, what if it is true that the daughter really is in the hospital and need help? I will appreciate any advance please. God bless….
run it is a scam. being a christian does not mean being foolish and getting ripped off.
My dear, these Nigerian folks are reaping havoc in this world. They are always appearing on your computers with some sad story. They are filled with lies and deception. To me, they are sent by the devil to steal, kill and destroy. If I were you, I would discontinue immediately. I firmly believe that this is a scam and it should stop. He will continue to seek funding from you until you find him out…when you do, it might just be too late.
Be wise sister.
God Bless.
well I quiet agreed with those who have spoken to Bibing about her internet affair with a Nigerian who was asking her for money but what i do not agreed with is Marcie say about Nigerians.
I am a Nigeria and I have friends who are honest Nigerians doing honest business on the net and relating with other people and helping them in the little way God has given them the grace. Not all Nigerians are bad just as not all indian or all Americans are bad or good. as christian we must be careful how we judge. To generalize and speak of a nation that God in His love and mercy has raised intercessors for and has spoken a lot about his destiny in the committee of nations as a nation evil from prophetic people in America and around the world that she shall be delivered from corruption and be used to raise the standard of righteousness in the world.
I am a nigerian and I am proud to say that anywhere and anytime. As christian our response about issues and people should be objective and not subjective and we must speak in the light of the truth.
i have a friend who today by virtue of his internet activities have met many people on the net males and females all around the world and they are good friends exchanging phone numbers on net and talking intimate thing without taking advantage of each others.
Bibing i am not judging or condemning you but you need to know this: you did not approach the relationship through the Spirit of God in you. you approach it with your emotion and you fell prey; if indeed this guy is fake since you have not written back to tell us if he failed to show up on the Tuesday you gave as a deadline.
The scripture says my sheep hear my voice and they follow me but the voice of the stranger they would not hear. you should have gone to the Lord to enquire at his mouth if you should commit yourself to the relationship or not and i am sure the Lord would have one way or the other speak to you, but because you already have an idol in your heart that is why it seem your desire to give is being confirm by the message you said you heard in your church. that is a delusion. when God speak he speaks clearly either through dreams vision or perception but if our emotion is already enthroned in any matter we would fail to hear the voice of the Lord clearly.
what i would advice you Bibing is to be careful next time. it is the Lord who give husband. He is the match maker, so you should trust in him and he would lead your husband to you and lead you to him. you may think age is not on your side. you have the Lord on your side if you would trust him with all your heart. I pray that the Lord would cause his will for you in marriage to be fulfilled. i pray that he would settle you and show his mercy on you and settle you in happy and peaceful home. he did it for me and for many others, he would do it for you.
Trust in the Lord and let not your heart be bitter against Nigerians because of the sin of one person. I would love you to give feed back in case the person show up.
my mail is mailsolomondavid@yahoo.com be free to mail me in case there is anything you which to know about Nigeria and Nigerians or about walking with the Lord.
God bless you.
To Indian, Hindu Brahmin Gal
You are to be commended for your integrity! The Holy Bible does give you the right to file for divorce in your case.
I know you may not want to. And I know alot of Christians might encourage you to “hang in there”, but God is Truth (John 4:24) and Love (John 3:16).
Your husband has repeatedly committed adultery. In all sincerity, his actions are a mockery to God’s Laws and your Love. HE SIMPLY DOES NOT DESERVE YOU!!!
If you really want him to be yours, then “let him go” and “Let God” take over.
Once he sees the difference between a “home wrecker” and a real woman, he may come running back as the Prodigal son did.
Again, I commend you for your Integrity. Yet, you are actually making the problem worse by staying with him.
I have spoken God’s Word to you. An experienced Marriage Counselor will generally also agree.
God Bless,
Pastor Gary
The hindu romans 5 glory in tribulation that tribulation will produce patience patience experience hope and hope in the Lord will never put you to shame this the word of God if u discover ur God given pupose u discover u are on the track of great people Do not let ur heart be troubled this is word of God is well
Friend just be very careful I have been ripped off by nigerians, i totally agree not all nigerians are the same, but please be wise in your dealings.
God Bless