I am currently 6 weeks pregnant, yesterday I had some really bad cramping and brown discharge. I went to the ER, they did my HCG levels and they stated it was kind of on the lower side but there was nothing to compare it to.
The ultrasound did not reveal any baby. And, I found out I was RH negative – which is a condition in which your body sees the baby as a foreign object and fights it. I was given a shot called Rhogham which helps to prevent your body from fighting the fetus.
I don’t know if its too late but I am praying to the Lord that this child that was given to me and my husband will be our miracle. I have an appointment tomorrow to repeat the lab work and ultrasound and praying that its positive. It has taken us a long time to get here and pray that we don’t have to start all over.
Please keep us in prayer! Thank you all. God is good and I know that there is nothing he can’t do.
Just to f/u on this. Unfortunately, we did lose the baby. It has been very hard on me. I know that God will do it but makes me ask why? why? why? Thanks all for listening. Hopefully, I will have a true testimony one day.
Everything happens for a reasond if God didnt want you to have that child, than he has his reasons.. in the bible says that we dont have to understand him just follow him… Dont worry God will give you something better remember to TRUST .. TRUST that when one door closes is for you to TRUST God and open another one.. leave it up to God he gave you a baby the first time even though he took it away but he can and WILL give it back.just trust
Take heart my dear. There is always an answer for every prayer. God will give you a full testimony and smiles all over. At least you have a loving husband with you. I am 25 and single and don’t know much about love. My former classmates are all married and I feel pressured by most people around me. It is sad for me but I do trust in the Lord.
I just logged in to follow up on your request. Fret not God had all the answers you never know he might have saved you both from having a sickly child or somthing. I believe you will have a healthy baby one day. While you belive God do your part and eat healthy, exersize and take care of your body these all work hand in hand. Ritah its funny I was about to say the same thing, I am 27 and like you most friends are married…I am praying for the Lord to send me a good fearing loving man. I get lonley and wonder somtimes as I really want to have children and a companion. Lets lift each other up in prayer. Be Blessed.
Thank you all for the uplifting. It has been very much needed and I know that God is healing us and preparing us for greatness. It is a very hard thing to go thru but I know he will do it for us.
To Ritah, thank you for you reassurance. Trust me, I understand how it is to be 25 and single. I didnt marry until I was 29 met the husband around 26 years of age. So you as well, take heart – he does prepare the right person for you and will lead that person right to you one day and it will change your life forever. Just dont rush anything keep praying and you will know when you have met that person.
To Iamredeemed. Thank you for your words of advice. I do continue to eat well and take my vitamins. I haven’t started with workouts yet but waiting until this is all over and I will do so. It does work hand in hand and have been very healthy. Will continue to do so. Everyone has stated the same thing to me about the Lord saving me from a sick child or something of that sort. I believe he knows best. And,as I stated to Ritah. I understand how it is to be lonely. But, I will keep you both in prayer as well to bless you with a God fearing and loving man so that you both can have love and share that with your children one day.
My husband has been a great support thru all this although its tough on him as well. BTW, God has blessed me to be a step-mother to his son who I take as my own and love very much, however, he does not live with us and that is also hard for us both but we are praying and trusting in God to give us children of our own.
Thank you all for your prayers and thought!
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Was touched by your story.The Lord makes all things beautiful in His time. I will always pray for you and I am sure (cos we serve a living God) dat u will drop a testimony here about your bouncing baby girl. I have a beautiful son who is 16mths old and I had problems when I was pregnant with him (bleeding,threatened abortion, a dilated cervix long before my due date). But God kept me thru all dis cos I gave birth without any complications or tears or anytin. When nxt u are pregnant, everyday, place ur hand over ur tummy and decree words of prophesy “this pregnancy will be carried to its full terms without any complications, my delivery will be without any hitch, this child will be for signs and wonders and I will dedicate dis baby in the House of my God and all will rejoice with me”. If u do speak in tongues, all the better. God bless you, my sister. Ur testimony is sure.
Hello,
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. I will be praying for you and for your husband.
I have something that I hope will help. It’s a quote from my favorite author. This is what she said to her sister, who was grieving over the loss of her baby: “As the little infants come forth immortal from their dusty beds, they immediately wing their way to their Mother’s arms.” When Jesus comes again He will give you back your little one and you will raise your child in a world where there is no more sadness, sickness, or death. The Blessed Hope is not far now. Look up.
There are times in life where words are meaningless. What can be said? When one sufffers a loss all we can do is pray and comfort.
In 2009 some dear friends of mine went through the pain of losing their newborn baby. it was a miracle that he actually survived birth and he held on for 7 days.
2 days after his funeral I was inspired to write the following song: “Some Days” It speaks of pain and despair and of Christ’s unfailing Love. You can view it on youtube at the following link. It seems to bring comfort and hope to many.
May God, Our God, The God of all comfort wrap his loving arms around you in this time of healing.
God Bless You,
Gary