Hi I’m 26. I’ll be 27 in a few months ive been through so much & I’ve sought God’s much but I still feel so alone ! I pray all the time for god to lead me. I’m so different from my family barely talk to them have no friends have a boyfriend but I’m too lonely to leave him he may not be the best one for me. I wish I could give you all more detail but it’d take really long. To sum it up I just need help I feel dumb I can’t socialize I’ve tried to take my life like I beg God to show me n lead me I want to do right. Most people my age could care less. I feel I do but I’m never happy with no confidence.
Can someone help with advice it hurts so bad it’s so much y want God showed me some type of grace? When I beg him I just want to be normal n happy and want God’s will for my .life but I’m just so stuck I don’t even know if this makes any sense but god lead me to this site hopefully I’ll get some help & insight please God I need u this is what I say all the time I just feel so stupid and alone.
You may not believe it, but God is drawing you closer to him in your pain. He says that he loves a broken spirit. Being broken is hard and is something most people try to escape from, but it is necessary for those who would seek God. I pray for your determination. Continue to seek him. He says that all who seek him will find him, but you must seek with all of your heart. He also says that he will not turn away any who would come after him. Keep on seeking, he wants you to be consumed with himself. Find a good church where you feel his spirit, and people who love him with their whole heart, and when he draws you closer to himself do not resist him. It will be uncomfortable, and scary, but it will lead to a new life filled with his love and acceptance.
Joseph thanks for responding .. its just im 26n i feel ive been tortured half my existence wen evry one else seems happy why wont god show me a breakthrough? it hurts every second .. I cant afford to travel to find the best church or ppl to be around so i feel no one understands … i just wnt GODS will but seems he thinks i may not deserve it? im so confused… id help the world if i could god lorrdd pleeeassee use me .. joseph please respond or email lluuvve@hotmail.com i need any advice please pray hard 4 me god bless
“unhappy life is worth living for.” life is there to be lived in a mid hardship and joy. we all know that happiness is one of the most dream things in this world. it you cannot have it here, maybe you can have it in life after. remember that happiness in this world is just temporary. do not look at it as important thing is this world. what is important is that you are living in accordance to the will of God. even if you are feeling unhappy with yourself, persevere and have hope. real happiness is not here in this world. what you have to do is to pray and work for your prayer. with that, im sure that you will be happy in the midst of unsatisfying family relationship and life. as long as you breath, you hope!
Visit your local animal shelter. There are dogs there who will help you heal. Notice how great they are. Hug them and then pray, “Now what?” Then all you have to do is relax by swinging on a swing-set or playing golf (whatever) and the answer will come to you. God will lead you to the next right thing. I know this may sound silly, but this can help you. I know this kind of thing works.
Hey I tried to e-mail you to let you know that I was praying and to talk if you wanted. If you would ever want to talk to me you can e-mail me at tomtomgk3@yahoo.com.
It is natural to feel like this sometimes, but I am hoping it does not turn into a full cycle.
When I have felt like you, I read not only the bible, but other helpful Christian books.
I don’t know your gender, but a trustworthy author, Beth Moore, put out a book recently for women struggling with insecurity.
I did not know this was where much of my pain and problems in life were rooted. Sometimes we are not happy because we feel insecure like how you feel right now, insecure in your relationship, insecure in your trust of God, insecure without confidence like you mentioned.
Please read this book. It will help you sort through your emotions. If you are a male, perhaps find a book like this one for you.
Proverbs 31:25
She is clothed in strength and dignity.
Believe this today…God gave every human dignity. You have self worth and do not hate yourself. God clothes you in strength and dignity. Believe it as much as you can.
Thank u haya n notperfect for advice n keep praying please thank u God bless
Mocha, Hi my name is Jessica. I was recently saved on October 11, 2009. I am 33 years old. I was in a similar situation as you. When I read your story, it really hit home with me. In my situation, I was in a relationship with a man who I love and still do love very much. He was addicted to crack cocaine and his lifestyle began to consume me to the point of me being suicidal. I had been hospitalized for depression and my family and friends could not understand why I wouldn’t leave him. I had put this man before God. I was not raised in a church but in my heart I believed in God. I cried many nights to God asking him to help me get out of my situation and asking him why me? One night I told God that let his will be done in my life. I told him whatever he had to take to take it and however he had to do it to do it. I meant it with everything that I was. I asked for the forgiveness of my sins and fell asleep in tears. I was willing to give up this man but it would not be my doing because I had no strength. Do you know that God woke me one morning with an overwhelming desire to go to church. I heard Gods voice for the very first time telling me to go to Stephanies Church. I went and was baptized in Jesus’ name and he filled me with the Holy Spirit and I began to speak in tongues. This is something that I had questioned for years when I witnessed people do it but it actually happened to me. Since that day I have been delivered from Depression, Alchohol and Drugs. Yours prayers are not in vain. God knows all and sees all. I am a liviing testimony. He is drawing you nearer as you read this passage. I promise. Keep your faith and believe. He will come into your life and you will never be the same.
Hi mocha, seek the things that are above. Seek God’s face, but don’t go to God with your cares for this life, that won’t work. Go to God emptied of yourself. It’s not about you anymore, live not for yourself anymore, seek His Kingdom, a relationship with Jesus, seek to know Jesus. It’s by unmerited grace of God that God calls us but God also tests us to see what is in our hearts, whether He is our God and All in All and we have no idols before Him. If we do, and if you are a true child of God He will knock all your idols out, He will make you see that He is the only one, source of your existence, you are kept by the power of God alone, start seeking Him now, praise Him always, especially in the fiery trials, you will be broken if you yield to His Spirit but if you resist, you will be ground into powder – you won’t ever come out purified. Trust the Lord, He knows what is best. Nothing is more precious than your soul, to God. All the other things are trivial, the cares of this life will choke the Word. Only 1 in 4 (according to the parable of the sower) will make it to eternity. Those who deny themselves and love not their lives. Be encouraged because when you fully surrender to the master potter, He will make all things beautiful in His time, you are His workmanship, let Him do what He needs to do with you. Do not murmur anymore, but surrender. Humble yourself, He will exalt you in due time. Decrease and Christ will increase, in you.
All you who are heavy laden and weak come to me and I will give you rest” Jesus will give you rest Mocha , You have no IDEA how much God loves you , He loves you so much He gave you His only begotten Son , (Jesus Christ)to Die for you on the cross , so that ALL your past present and future sins will be forgiven and not only that When you accept in your heart and confess with your mouth that you believe Jesus is God and you accept His love for you , Jesus will take care and you will come to know of His love for you and then will you love Him with all your heart you see ” We love Him because He first Loved us” , Trust me ones you know of His Grace and His love you will see how perfect you are in His eyes and you will Love yourself just as He loves you, “seek first the Kingdom of God , and all things shall be added unto you” , you dont have to do a good deed of even judge yourself All you have to do is tell Jesus (tell Him literally) that you do believe in Him and you want Him to come into your heart , John 3:16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only Begotten son, so that whoever believes in Him (Jesus) should not perish ( be weak , sick , fall asleep(die young) , Go to hell, ) but have everlasting life ( be blessed, be healthy, be stong, be perfect in the eyes of God) you see when Jesus died on the cross He took ALL our sickness’s All our sorrows All our worries All our sins All our financial problems and His last words on the cross was that ITS IS FINISHED all gods judgment has fallen on Jesus , Jesus died so that we might LIVE! its time for you to rest and trust in Him, I will keep praying for you
God Bless
xoxoxo
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I pray for you, in the name of Jesus Christ that God will give you hope. You were born with a purpose. You may not know it yet but God will show it to you. There are people that only you can reach and will only hear your voice. You can and will help others. You are useful to the kingdom of God. God loves you and will heal your broken heart. Don’t give up. Seek your purpose and give your cares over to the one who loves you most. Jesus.
I felt that way once before and the very things i didnt like about my self were the things that I couldn’t understand or wasnt doing right. Does it make you feel that the things people love about you are the very things you hate about yourself and would so rather be them. I had to realize and still is realizing that God’s people are peculiar people (strange, weird, different) and that’s who we are destined to be. Don’t hate yourself, learn yourself. God said that we were made up in his image and God is made of love. I dont honestly think God will create us for us to hate our selves. In every one of us their lies something special that God only gave to you. You have to seek that and embrace who you are. At the most, if there are things about you that you truly hate, ask God to free you of them and change. Have faith and believe that God is who he is. Along with your faith you have to put in works to change for the better. Faith with out works is dead remember. If you get to a point where something about you just won’t change ask God to reveal those things to you. I cry out to God scream, cry, praise and God said seek him so I do and he is there for me I know even when I am doubting. If there are things in your life that you are not please with that you have done than ask God for forgiveness and free your self from it. Tell the devil he is a liar and bind those thoughts that he places in your mind. If there are things that people have done to you forgive them, so that God can continue to forgive you and you can loose those chains of bondage. Lastly be true to your self, expose the devil in your life and command him to leave in Jesus name. Don’t give up on God and self because God alone is all you need. Remember he said “if we focus on him he will take care of all our need according to his riches and glory. That means every thing right, (physically,mentally,emotionally, financially,) Trust him, depend on him, coun on him, he is not a liar. We, us , you, are the one he gave free will to and if you stay with him he wont let you down im sure. Take care.
Dear Mocha,
I just saw your text. I was touched by your pain.
I hope you are feeling more encouraged. I hope you
know that God does love you. He made you and you
are beautiful in His eyes. He has a plan for you.
Don’t listen to the lies in your mind. I pray that
you will find a church or support group of women
to help you through this. Hope you post an update.
His grace is abundant to you.
Hi Mocha,hope you are doing great now.Many people are giving you a wonderful advice I wish you would apply it into your life.Jesus said,I am the Bread of life.He who comes to me will never go hungry and he who believes in me will never be thirsty.(John6:35)
Please search a Church that is glorifying our Lord Jesus Christ (Born Again Church).Ask God to give you a true Christian friends and have fellowship with them.Most important to have a deep relationship with the Lord Jesus by the power of His Holy Spirit,your life will change glory to glory.You must be Born Again that you can see the Kingdom of God(John 3:3)In His Kingdom you will find joy,peace,love,blessing,deliverance,restoration,healing…everything that you need.Please read the Bible believe in Jesus and believe in His word surely you will find life in Him.When you have a deep realationship with the Lord,you will be filled by the Holy Spirit and your joy will be complete.His presence will encourage you and His grace will embrace you.Please watch JC Praise Worshippers on Youtube their songs will help to encourage you.Never give up because Jesus loves you and I will pray for you.God bless you
You are under a grate deal of oppression and you must take authority over the enemy who wants to destroy you. You must read healing scriptures and learn who you are in Christ. You are a conquerer, and you must learn to act as one. God will give you the victory. If you suffered abuse there are many online helps for christian victims. There are many websites and prayer links who can help you. I at one time was so down my only solace was a christan depression group. It has taken 8 years for me to get free. There are prayer groups on skype and buble studies. That is where i get my fellowship, I have no church close and my friends are few and non christian. God has a plan for your life, and you only have to believe He is right there with you now.
wow! praise God..I love all the messages of hope, because they give me hope too. Mocha I will pray for you to and hope God has blessed your life already. I also have suffered from depression for a long time and the feeling that I am a social outkast. I have repeatedly taken these thoughts to the Lord and God keeps speaking to my heart that I do not need to fit into the world and seek acceptance from it, because God has already accepted me as I am. In fact, there is nothing wrong with me I am perfect according to his will those thoughts are from the enemy and they are NOT TRUE. I still struggle in my life with thoughts of depression, and not being worthy but I still hold onto God and I know God is still holding onto me, probably more than I am. I think just have to block those thoughts out of your mind and realize you are already perfect as you are and that God’s love is sufficient and God’s grace is enough to carry you through life’s trials and tribulations.