My boyfriend ended our 7 yr relationship about 2 months ago. Everything after that happend so fast. Within those two months I became closer to God and have been blessed with many answers from God.
I moved out and he moved out to live at his brother’s house. I’ve prayed for him and for him to become closer to God. Funny thing is god answered my prayer. He texted me yesterday saying he was going to stay away from his friends for awhile and go to church as well. It’s hard for us to stop contact 100% because we still have bills to pay together. So we’ll text only about that and when God would give signs to let him know he wants him to get closer to him. I’ve felt I’ve done my part in that and its up to god and him to go through the rest.
I’m just really confused because it’s sooo hard to let go completely and let God do his work. I’ve prayed about it but i don’t know I guess I’m scared to let go fully for the fact being that there’s a chance that my ex fiance wont be in my future.
I am so heart broken …from the bottom of my heart I feel like he is my soulmate and so many coincidences between us. I don’t know if I should pray for God to return him to me because it might be selfish of me to do that since it doesn’t let god do what he has to do with my future. But I am scared and so impatient to know if whether he’ll be my furture husband.
How do I pray to ask God this… or to reveal to me if he is my soulmate or not?
You should pray to God, what you seeking for. God will provide you with whom is meant to be. Patience is the key.
Romans 8:24-27
For we are saved by hope: but hope that is seen is not hope: for what a man seeth, why doth he yet hope for? But if we hope for that we see not, then do we with patience wait for it. Likewise the Spirit also helpeth out infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought: but the Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered. And he that searcheth the heart knoweth what is the mind of the Spirit, because he maketh intercession for the saints according the will of God.
My ex ended our relationship last month. I’m so heart broken and I feel like my life is over, but I know God allowed this to happen for a reason. I believe God allowed this to happen to me because he wanted me to open my eyes and change my wicked ways. Every day I took advantage of not only my bf, but of everything and everyone in my life. I was never thankful for what I had, I was selfish, I always wanted more and was never satisfied with anything, and I disrespected the ones I loved. But most of all I turned my back on God. I always considered myself a “christian” but I never acted like one.
I believe God wants me to build my relationship with him and become a better person, and that is what I’m trying to work on each day.
I still get discouraged and each day I feel weak and empty, but I try my best to be positive anyway and have faith anyway.
I know God knows my pain, he sees my tears and sees my faith and my efforts, and I know he will reward me for my sufferings.
I’m still struggling everyday. Still hurting, but we need to stay strong. We need to stop worrying and leave it up to God. All we have to do is have faith in him, and he brings blessings, healing and restoration.
I recently got separated from my wife and two kids and although she is the only woman I love, I didn’t always show it. Now she no longer wants to have anything to do with me and has left home with our two kids.
So I have an idea of what you’re going through and how you feel. What I do which helps me is to throw and immerse myself in God and His work. God still loves us regardless of our past and wants us to have a deep relationship with Him. So I decided to get involved in the things of the Kingdom.
Concerning my separation, I prayed and am still praying for God to help her to forgive me, to reconcile and return to me. I prayed, crying night and day, at home, church and even at the office asking God to fix this and He has been helping me, He led me back to Himself through this situation and I have found solace in His word and promises, especially concerning my situation and for this I have faith that they will return to me, only because He said so.
So I believe you need to delve into God’s word and search the scriptures. Find out what God has to say about your situation, this will help you in knowing your future and it will help build your faith. You also need to come to the place where you are willing to accept God’s position regardless of what it is, because that’s what is going to happen, whether you like it or not, whether it looks like it or not. Only His purpose will stand – Isaiah 14:24 (NKJV) says – “The LORD of hosts has sworn, saying “Surely, as I have thought, so it shall come to pass, and as I have purposed , so it shall stand”. Now this scripture comes across in two ways and I want you to look at this like this:
(1) If God’s position is that your ex doesn’t return, there’s nothing you can do to change that.
(2) If God’s position is that your ex will return, there’s nothing he can do to fight that. So you need to find out what God’s position is concerning your situation and come to terms with it. Why do I say this so emphatically? Because according to that scripture “The LORD of hosts has sworn”. Now when God swears about a thing, forget it, it must come to pass. Now that’s a good thing for you because He said in Jeremiah 29:11 (NKJV) – “For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope”. The KJV version puts it like this “For I know the thoughts that I think towards you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end”. Proverbs 24:14 (Basic Bible in English) says “So let your desire be for wisdom: if you have it, there will be a future, and your hope will not be cut off”. The Darby English Bible of the same scripture puts it like this “So consider wisdom for thy soul; if thou hast found it, there shall be a result, and thine expectation shall not be cut off”.
So pray always, tell God exactly how you feel, what you’re thinking and trust me He won’t be offended by it, because He knows it already. Then read your bible and God will speak back to you through it.
Know this, God has your best interest at heart and that’s what He’s going to bring to pass (that which is for your best).
Be encouraged.