I wanna pray to God for a miracle with my recently ended relationship with my ex boyfriend of 3 years. I did the ultimate no no which is getting pregnant when we broke up for 4mnths. Then mistaken him as the child’s father which I truly thought he was. Now he’s heartbroken and I feel like s*** for how it went. This guy is everything I want in a man with a couple or flaws, quite normal! We have a great connection, when we kiss its a electrical feeling with happiness, we just really vibe with each other. Never been able to break up and stay away from each other but this looks like the end.
Despite the bad I did I love him with all my heart and can’t see myself with nobody else and he’s said the same. He doesn’t even wanna say goodbye to me but I have said it to him. I just don’t even wanna lose him and want a miracle to happen. Anyhow, he was thinking about accepting my newborn daughter and later on said nothing else about it and just decide to break forever.
Is there anyone out here with an outside relationship baby who made it to a better place?
Sometimes things take a turn and it’s not where you really wanted to be, but there you are. There’s always lots of things that can change in a person’s heart, but one thing God doesn’t intervene too much in is a person’s will. Your ex probably does really love you, but the reminder and the baby, it’s a lot for any man. IF he decides to have a relationship with you at this point, it would mean more than just being a couple, it would mean he would have to come to some very heavy terms in his heart. Let him figure it out and give him plenty of space and breathing room. Give him a year to decide if you are what he wants, and if not, TRUST ME….it’s better to move on and start planting good seeds in life, your garden will be beautiful that way.
A person who has the least bit of resentment of discomfort in a relationship will not be an easy person to live with forever. And that “electrical” feeling will not always be there. Trust me on this one, let it go and give him to God.
Hi! years ago I had an extra marital relationship with my daughter’s father. I was engaged to my boyfriend of two years, he opted to enlist in the military. While he was away I started to double-date with other couples. The one weekend nights of being with my daughter’s father ended up by my getting pregnant. I spent years of anguish over my one weekend encounter. I spent years of working, working to support my child and myself, even though I was married to my other children’s father. I always felt responsible with my daughter and I am glad that I gave birth to her. I’ve prayed for forgiveness and help with my child. I am very glad I didn’t have an abortion, too. I was always employed with just about any jobs I wanted to work at, at times I felt like helping my parents with their struggling to raising a large family which I did for several years. I did tell my seven children’s father when he got honorably discharged from his stinct in the military that I had a daughter for another man. He did spend time thinking things through , in the end he forgave me and gave his surname to my eldest daughter. All these years him and his family have accepted her into their family. My eldest daughter and I are serving Father God and helping and supporting our other younger family members. My counsel for you is to continue to caring for yourself and having this child and trust Father God to helping you with the care and support. He’s a Father who understands and is for those who don’t take the easy way out. Also wait, wait and pray for the father to come around or possibly that boyfriend will take your child as his child, too. For my eldest daughter’s biological father kept denying her existence and didn’t ever want to help and support his own daughter.
God can work a miracle. Believe him